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srtdodgeram2005

i miss her already

Jun 02, 2005 11:01

IT HASN'T EVEN BEEN A DAY YET AND I AM MISSING HER SO MUCH, yea to all the people that like to "dig" for information to bitch at their daughters, this is for you. Why dont you try and get a life instead of trying to make your daughter miserable??? I may be 17 but i bet you i know what i what more than you do, and your how old?? lets not even talk ( Read more... )

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anonymous June 3 2005, 04:38:02 UTC

Maybe it´s YOU that doesn´t know the half of it. There is alot more than you know.... My life isn´t miserable..despite what she might tell you my husband loves me and I love him so mind your own business. OH and i do have a life, avery full and active life...i don´t make anyone miserable..if you were older you might understand that noone can make you miserable, happy, sad or otherwise, you choose each day how you will feel and if you choose to be miserable that is your fault no one elses. It´s called being mature and responsible for your own actions.

oh really? srtdodgeram2005 June 3 2005, 15:18:42 UTC

Good thing i am probably more mature than you then huh? I do mind my own business, you just make it everyone elses. Even if i dont know the half of it, i have been through enough shit in my life, that you dont know shit about and i know what i want. Tara is the only person that makes me understand things in a different perspective. SO honestly i dont care how "great" your life is, but i sure as hell am not gonna sit here and mind my own business when you tell your daughter that you dont care if she lives past that night!!! OH one more thing, with tara, other people are at fault for how she feels, b/c the way that she has been treated, she takes everything to heart, and you dont help that much.......

Re: oh really? anonymous June 4 2005, 21:52:18 UTC

First of all I love my daughter very much, more than you could ever possibly know. Second, Tara hasn´t had a bad life nor has she been treated badly. She has been spoiled by most of her family the biggest part of her life. She has had some bad experiences but she has not been treated badly. And third, and final as anything else that needs to be said can be said in person as I see no reason for everyone to read all this, put things in perspective, if you had raised and loved your child for 17 years and all of a sudden someone wants to take her away and to leave you complete out of the plans for her future, not even include you in wedding plans, how would you feel. Maybe you should think about how her family would feel. It is not always just about ya´ll.

Re: oh really? srtdodgeram2005 June 4 2005, 22:35:08 UTC

Ok one, i never said she has always been treated bad, i was referring to the other night. Two, i know i dont know how much you love your daughter b/c all i hear is all the bad things. And three, I do understand that fact that you are mad about me "taking" your daughter away. But back to reality, we are making our plans so that tara can always see you and CANCUN was were our honey moon is gonna be, not were we get married... if you would of asked tara, instead of just flippin out, none of this drama would be happening.... Last but not least, if you would open your eyes and realize that everything that tara and i do, is to impress you and make you happy, not just us......things go so much smoother when you dont jump to conclusions all the time.....

Re: oh really? anonymous June 5 2005, 05:15:07 UTC

Okay, one final response, everything you and Tara do is to impress me and make me happy.....WOW....does that include the hot tub, the camping trip and all that cause I wasnt impressed. Tara knows what it takes for me to be impressed and like someone...she doesn´t have to guess, I have gotten along quite well with all her other boyfriends. Also, I shouldn´t have to ask Tara about things, I should have been told before her friends that told me. And last but not least if you think she will ever be truly happy without her family, her brother and his kids and yes her mother, etc., you don´t know Tara. It´s is not that I totally object to her thoughts of marriage, it´s just that there are right and wrong ways to do things and when someone comes along and tries to change everything she has talked about and thought about all her life well, that is a little worrisome. I want her to be happy but I want her to go about her future the right way.

Re: oh really? milkmycow24 June 6 2005, 07:26:23 UTC

does it matter to anyone what i want? Tim makes me happy mom, you dont understand that. and the hot-tub and the camping trip, happened ALONG time ago. Before we really cared what anyone thought of our relationship. I wish that my family would just see how much Tim really means to me, and that I have faith that this relationship is THE ONE! You dont have any idea how much it hurts to have your family insult the one you love. Mom you know that, uncle clay and grandpa didnt even go to YOUR wedding. You were hurt werent you? Because they didnt approve? Tim treats me good, i have NEVER had anyone care for me, or as much for me, as he does. I just wish you all would see that he DOES love me, despite what you want to believe. Try to see that we did care what you thought, or else we wouldnt of tried so hard, well, he wouldnt of tried so hard to impress you, and show you what a good guy he really is. And he is a good great, a great guy, so just remember that, and understand that alot of what we plan, is because of you. Not saying we are ( ... )

Re: oh really? anonymous June 7 2005, 07:01:29 UTC

What you want does matter Tara, but I still say there is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Also loving someone does not mean that you give up all the plans you had for your life just to please them. People can be in love and plan a future together without the urgency you try to put into everything. True love stands the test of time, it lasts while people finish college, military,etc., in fact planning things so that good education or job skills are acquired is a much better way to start. Plus couples should always have a year or two together, just the two of them to get to know each other better and to adjust to marriage and all the changes it brings to your life before children are added. Just like I was talking to Trey tonight about Ashley, she and her fiance love each other and are going to get married but they are planning things right. If you truly love each other the urgency doesn't need to be there, take your time, plan things properly. Tim is just barely 17 and not even out of high school and you are 17 (yes ( ... )

Re: oh really? milkmycow24 June 7 2005, 17:52:22 UTC

What you dont see, is that we ARE planning things out, and we ARE talking about what we want in life. We've been really mature about this, but all you see is the things we write in livejournal. We dont write everything for everyone to see, because the future Tim and I are planning to spend together, doesnt involve anyone else. Im not saying that it doesnt involve you, or our families, im just saying some of our friends who read our livejournals. Im also not saying that our futures just involve Tim and I, but we dont need everyones opinions on what we should do. What you dont see mom, is that we are seriously being VERY MATURE about this whole thing. Besides the fact that we are best friends, and are able to talk about everything, we also love each other. You may not believe it, because we are so young, but its true. And if you want Tim to tell you, how much he loves me, im sure he will. I know you dont think that he knows what he wants, and sometimes i dont think he does either, but you dont see us together. We have so much fun ( ... )

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