concerining every..if you dont want like what i have to say...then get over it..
I have noticed a lot of you are mudslinging each other..throwing words and feelings into who your judgeing. Im sick of it! You might want to start thinking with your head before you put words on the page that come your feelings (hate, anger, etc). Might i realliterate a common phrased used "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me". Guess what ppls words do hurt. You may hate some one, but have you really sat down and talked with them..expressed ideas, before you judged them and placed hate on them? I dont think so. Im highly disappontied in a lot of you. Your letting a site that mind you is a part of a virtual world..virtual being the non real. yet the ppls that sit at the comps and read your words of hate and anger..really do have feelings and are quite real. So before you speak think about what your writing before you just let your emotions take over and say things that you really dont mean. *pings a dictionary at you* if it helps look up each words meaning..look at the differance between hate and dislike. All of you are letting just some ppls opinions that dont have acctual facts get to you before the truth really comes out. Have you tried to find the truth? it helps when you want to know all sides of a discussion before you throw the first stone of hate and anger at some one. I know for sure words hurt, and they hurt like hell. All through my life i have been laughed at for one thing or another..its cause im different..and i was more disaplended then any one else. Yet i was judged for my physical apperance before any one really sat down and tried to become a friend. I have already lost one friendship with a dear friend of mine over just joining a community that bashed pp..yet i am a part of both communities, one for and one against. Think before you speak. its that simple, and not that hard. Its just a game ppls its not a reality of life..but a virtual one. You will lose more if you let your hate and anger over shadow the truth..i know cause i have done so. You cant let hate build inside, it will kill you to no end. I have been there, and i have gotten to know that friend again cause i let it go. And to keep living you have to, hate will do nothing but bring you down. Its not easy i know that. but would you chose to lose a friendship with some one cause you once disagree or try to work things out? i know that when you work things out and start over, it only gets better for you. Now some of you may chose not to be my friend cause of what i say..but i dont care. Im tired of being placed in the middle over and over again, I have done that with my parents, my best friends...and now even here. You think its easy to lash out with out thinking..but your words hurt a hell of a lot worse when you do. It hurts to see those that could work together and come to a understanding..bash each other over and over again..and the causes are the most silly of all. You dont get how that hurts another person with what you say, cause you judge, instead of talking. You scream when you could understand. I know its tearing me apart..im losing ppls i call friends over such a thing as this. *sigh* Its getting to be a childish act really..when most of us sooner or later will be hitting our late teens..the teens you will be seen as adults. Yet you cant solve and issue in an adult manner. All i want to know is why? Cant you remember one time you were judged unfairly in real life? Im sure most can, no one is 100% prefect...you cant be your still human. You have flaws. but what i dont get is why you would judge anothers flaws when you have some of your own?