*huggles you* I'm glad you posted. Wasn't sure what had happened to you, my love!
In a society obsessed with image, sex, and the needless accquiring, we often forget what the quality of our successes, the quality of our relationships with others, can only be as great as the happiness we have with ourselves.
aww, Nikka, I love you. I am just having lots of deep thoughts that I am putting to paper lately, so I havent been blogging. But I am going to start posting them. I have just been feeling so me-ish lately. I love it. Sara is high on life, lol.
Does this necessarily need to be a partner driven need? Can't a feeling of intimacy also be fostered with one's self?
yes, in it's purest form you must be happy within and love yourself before you can really be happy with anyone else.
It's interesting your thoughts reflect a discussion I had with my counsellor on this subject this weekend. It boils down to you must love yourself and it is not selfish to consider your needs as well as considering those of others. If you can't look after and consider yourself, then you're never going to be able to look after others as well as you would like.
Sweetie, I'll echo Nikka here, I've been worried and am so glad you posted. It sounds as if you're doing a lot of good, hard work and I'm so happy and proud for you. :)
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In a society obsessed with image, sex, and the needless accquiring, we often forget what the quality of our successes, the quality of our relationships with others, can only be as great as the happiness we have with ourselves.
Word. Just, word.
My face has been rocked.
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That, or I need to stop being such a cynical, hating-the-stupid-world bitch, right?
Yay for deep thoughts.
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yes, in it's purest form you must be happy within and love yourself before you can really be happy with anyone else.
It's interesting your thoughts reflect a discussion I had with my counsellor on this subject this weekend. It boils down to you must love yourself and it is not selfish to consider your needs as well as considering those of others. If you can't look after and consider yourself, then you're never going to be able to look after others as well as you would like.
Sweetie, I'll echo Nikka here, I've been worried and am so glad you posted. It sounds as if you're doing a lot of good, hard work and I'm so happy and proud for you. :)
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what sucks is that i know i can be happy with just me, but sometimes i just want someone to cuddle me and tell me its ok.
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