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So sometimes it sucks when I'm right. It was EXACTLY what I thought it was. I mean, it was the mature thing to do, but it just sucks. Sometimes I really don't like aspects of my family.
As it turns out, I had a chat with my mother about the whole thing (since she's the main cause of the drama). Basically, she's decided to start over with him. Ya know, give him a clean slate. A second chance. The thing is, I think the thing she thinks happened to make her not like him didn't really happen at all. Either way, it's in the past. She's FINALLY decided to leave it that way. I do know that she was impressed that we (mainly he) handled this like adults, in a mature, calm fashion. Now, she's all willing to start over with him, she even invited him to dinner tonight (which he declined due to the fact that 1. he's working and 2. he'd be uncomfortable since she hates him WHICH she never said she did). She's trying to make ammends. She saw how much he means to me and realized that I figured out that whatever the heck happened or didn't happen in high school stayed that way.
Now, her white flag is up, she's willing to give him a try, the real question is, now, will he do the same?
As it turns out, I had a chat with my mother about the whole thing (since she's the main cause of the drama). Basically, she's decided to start over with him. Ya know, give him a clean slate. A second chance. The thing is, I think the thing she thinks happened to make her not like him didn't really happen at all. Either way, it's in the past. She's FINALLY decided to leave it that way. I do know that she was impressed that we (mainly he) handled this like adults, in a mature, calm fashion. Now, she's all willing to start over with him, she even invited him to dinner tonight (which he declined due to the fact that 1. he's working and 2. he'd be uncomfortable since she hates him WHICH she never said she did). She's trying to make ammends. She saw how much he means to me and realized that I figured out that whatever the heck happened or didn't happen in high school stayed that way.
Now, her white flag is up, she's willing to give him a try, the real question is, now, will he do the same?