this isnt finished yet, and wont be allowed comments until it is, FYI
why is it that when someone is upset by something someone said (vague enough for ya? it gets better...), someone is always there to say "fuck them, their opinion doesnt mean anything! YOURS is the only one that matters!"? so why should i even listen to you, then? why, in fact, should we even have voices if nobody's opinion means anything? then in the same (usually liberal/left wing/democratic) group, they tell you to respect everything. y'know, respect others's opinions. i dont understand this way of thinking. now, see, while i dont take everything everybody says to heart, personally,