Apr 09, 2010 08:57
Yesterday I learned the Medical Examiner finalized the post. Tues. the funeral home was notified. Or so I thought. The only person to access the page was off and didn't call me. No one else has access. Gee I hope nothing ever happens to her. Of course I cried. I didn't feel well yesterday and this 8 wk. wait was closing tomorrow.
Mike called me back later, he got the lady on her cell. He didn't understand because she didn't tell him Tues. that since it was a pending certificate it had to be amended. They may have it by Monday or Tues. I apologized for losing my cool and crying in his ear and told him I wouldn't have people bring shovels to my funeral. (I had told him they would probably have to dig the grave with the snafu's). When we buried arson victim Stacy years ago they had not gotten the vault so I had to bring her cremains home until holiday was over. Then for son's funeral the director (the third one in two days) marked the wrong chapel for the service and then neglected to use the exit there and tell the people where to go. We all stood outside wondering where he was.
In the meantime the ME's office told me how I could get a copy of the report. No cost as I'm next of kin.
Did you know these reports are public record yet they can't tell you the results over the phone due to privacy act?