Oh.. what a different topic they talked about. i don't really like that topic cause not only do they talk about the same things somehow but also its getting them and us in a bad mood xD
anyway let me say something about tego ^~^
even though it might sound frustrating to read about what Tegoshi said yet I can't blame him for faking, if he does.
that kind of lifestyle they have since like their early teenager years how can they be 'themselves'?
people that work in offices and want to become something upper and important they can't be 'themselves' either, can they?
people that want achieve something, that have to fight to be accepted and liked. how can they just be themselves and fool around when they are expected to be professionals, even though they might not have been at an age where you could or should expect them to be.
AND the most important thing I 'read' out of his words always is that it's not that he wants to be like someone else in front of other's but you can't give out your weaknesses when working in such important 'business' where it would not bring you anywhere. Because to me knowing your weaknesses is a main part of knowing who you are. And to be honest I myself would not 'be myself' if i were in any of their positions, even in School or at Work i never was 'myself', showing weakness for example to me is something i can't and don't want to do around others especially if they should "respect" me you know.
I'm not really feeling fooled by him because seeing him smile and laugh in real life is something different yet it never seemed that different from what i saw on tv. maybe u say he is a good actor xD then ok.. i just can't believe he is faking all of it, cant believe he never enjoyed himself when being with news or at concerts or stuff... that he might not enjoy interviews i believe, that even shootings are annoying i too believe. but he loves singing right? as long as he does and it shows (to me) then i'm happy with who he is and wants to show us.
They don't have much privacy and everything they say will be used against them so at least let them have their 'real selves' to themselves and their family.
we shouldnt not want to take everything they have.
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PS: LOL gomen but just something, I think that there are still many many parts of his character and personality what we see isn't faked. Also I don't think 'showing a different side of yourself in public' means that he (or others) try to fool us. I'd like to think of it as 'showing a different side' instead.
I do that too. I wonder who doesn't. ^^;
Being yourself to me mainly means something like > letting down your defenses and just do things like you do when you know nobody is watching. You can do those things only around people you trust and feel comfortable around, you can't be like that at work.
But that's just my opinion once I thought about it if you think yourself into their position maybe you will notice things you'd do but normally don't realize what they actually mean.
I don't think if you meet him and get to know him you would think 'OH WOW HE IS A COMPLETE DIFFERENT PERSON.' no way.
your comment has left many thoughts on me... I usually think about the same things nowadays too. Well it's a little bit too philosophical for me (or us?) to think and consider about, but doesn't it worth to understand why people do what they do?
Your reasons to his not being himself are almost similar to mine. Thank you for telling us. I am happy I am not the only one :)
I am happy you think a like and said so ^~^ it's a complex topic and I might have not expressed it 100% how i wanted but ..
I am just thinking that it's just human to show different sides of yourself depending on the situation, isn't it? Doesn't mean we want to play with people but also protect ourselves.
or something like that.. XD
Anyway if you 'study' his star sign you will see get an idea about his 'way of thinking' and so on.
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Sorry for the many edits, the topic keeps bugging me because it makes me question myself, not Tegoshi.
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The Tegoshi Yuya that we see is the Tegoshi Yuya that he wants us to see, it’s a part of him that he wants to display, a part of him that he is comfortable with yet it doesn’t mean that it’s not ‘HIM’, does it?
Sometimes it’s ok to fake a smile and tell a lie, but that doesn’t make him a bad person does it?
Also, he is constantly growing as a person, as an individual isn’t he? He will show us more changes maybe in the future yet there will always be that part of him that stays the same, there will always be a part of him that is ‘true’ and that we can see, because he’s ‘THE’ Tegoshi Yuya and nothing can change that.
And only because he decides to show us ‘this’ part of himself doesn’t mean it is not him or that he is faking anything because that Tegoshi Yuya that we see does enjoy what he does, and only because he will show us this part of himself doesn’t mean he is a completely different person but there will always be certain things or ways or thoughts he has that he won’t be showing us.
I think you can transfer that same pattern to Yamapi, Ryo, Shige…and yourself, right?
There is always going to be that person that you are but maybe just like a rainbow, you have sides on you that you won’t show everyone for what reason ever.
i just have to agree with you about that! Tegoshi is not a bad person - no one is meant to be bad since they were born - it is just life that drives people onto different paths of life. In my opinion, Tegoshi is one of the best example for that quote. He debuted shortly after joining JE and was hardly known by either long-time JE fans and newcomers. If you pay careful attention, you will see that he didn't use to have as much attention as he does right now; he was overwhelmed by those Yamapi, Kusano, Uchi Hiroki etc. As said in many interviews, tegoshi adored them; he wanted to be one of them! But, you see, it's not possible to say "oh i'm gonna be famous" and get what you want the next day straight away! It's all about the will and the effort one gives out to achieve such goals. I bet Tegoshi understood that very clearly. Many people say Tegoshi before and after NEWS' hiatus are two completely different people, that he looks much more mature and has more of a personality than the previous "him" - by which I mean some such as being erotic and cute :P yeah i'm pretty sure one way or another tegoshi's fans like that about him. But so, yes, now he has stood out, and is at the peak of almost anything. Would you think that the 'he' right now is the true one, or the 'previous he' is the one Tegoshi actually is? My answer is, we never know unless we have a sit-down talk with him. Yet, my theories are much further than that. If you consider him being the youngest, the one with less experience, the one who hates to lose, you will see: he has no choice but to 'create' a new him to fit in this entertainment world. It's not easy at all, all of us know that, but for Tegoshi to have accomplished that much, it's damn amazing! (I can guarantee that 'damn' is the last bad word I'm putting into this reply!) So the 'he' right now is definitely the 'he' he wants us to see. As fans I think we should all respect and escape any skepticism. After all, him being an idol is to give us pleasure and joy; as long as he can do it, he does a good job. There is no reason for us to search deeply into who he is. Let's respect him, and love him the way he chooses to be. He is not going to let us down, that's the least thing i can say right now :)
btw, there was a point when i disliked him because I thought he was faking too much - of course such things happen now and then - but after talking with you guys and thinking deeply about it, I think I have changed my opinions a bit now. Tegoshi is still one of the 6 dorks I have chosen to love, isn't he? :)
we all know about his debut and so on, wasn't easy on him i can imagine. he is smart and knows what to do to get what he wants and in my eyes he deserves all of it.
agree also with that he probably worked hard for what he got now, its impressive to see how he grew and all, but to me sensing from the start it was meant to be, that he became who he is now. I mean his debut was pretty impressive, he literally did 'nothing' so it seemed to everyone and i can imagine he was pretty surprised too but he managed to keep it together and work for it even more, achieving more than he maybe has dreamt of that time (although i can imagine his dreams being really high already back then, he wanted to be internationally famous from the start huh? hehe..)
right right, i should stop talking about it already because we won't have something like 'an answer' which I think we don't even need ^~^
I just want everyone to respect and love him too. Everything he does and gives us is more than enough and he must be happy with it too or else he wouldn't be doing what he does, right?
we can't do anything besides supporting his decisions, and I hope everyone will because he is not 'fake' just the person he wants to be.
same as rin-chan, I mean arinajon, your comment really left me many thought
actually, before, I also have same thought with nana-chan. I'm worry, I'm confuse, I'm puzzled, I felt lost. I'm wondering which one I love, the simple him before or the complex him now. I'm wondering if I have a chance to meet him, get know of him then shall I see him as complete difference person. I'm scary if one day he'll make me disappointed. Because my feeling for him just too much so I'll be hurt badly if that happens and I don't want that. I had asked many peoples but no one could give me a proper answer.
But, after day by day, week by week and month by month, I start realizing the same thing as you, riina-san. Yes, that's right. Even those common people like us don't like to show everything about ourselves to others, so a idol like him has those action is not something too much. The entertainment world is not a simple world so he has to do whatever could let him easily stay inside it. I believe that he really enjoys his job as a idol, a singer; he enjoys the concerts and cherish his fans. He smile for him but for us - his fans - also and does everything make us happy. Even though he's fake of not, more or less, I believe that he's not a bad person so it's fine with me. And well, I agree with you that "showing many faces" can't be counted as fake
Riina-san, reading your comment makes me really glad >////< sorry for my long comment xD
lol xD since its too many..i'd just say i agree with u too, n u're in a way giving me answers.. it's not like i think abt it too much..nooo xD its an endless subject n will only tiring me out.. i do believe that being an idol since a really young age is hard..they dont live a normal life..they have many people watching over them..n of course judging them too.. so somehow they grow with it, learn how to behave n manage their own self, means yess...knowing weaknesses is one of it..
if i say my self is only what u see i am..i should be cursed of lying to u xDD coz i'm not ONLY what i show my self..but still there's a part of me shown is DEFINITELY ME..only may be u dont know which xDD so i guess its the same with them..what they show us..may be only one side of their self..n may be always there's something true abt them in that side..only we cant point which..i mean who knows?
all i hope of them..esp of Tegoshi is just to enjoy n treasure every little things he does..hope he can cope well with his life..coz thinking him not comfortable of his life just making me really sad..n who i am asking him to be all perfect..even thats what he's trying to do as his job makes him to.. still i believe he has this passion for singing n how he loves it..so yes..i think its one of his true self when he sings ^^
aargghhh >__< its indeed one disturbing topic..things that somehow u have on ur mind but choose not to spit it out..coz its..just endless thoughts..
thanx Riina-chan for giving logical explanation abt him n his words..n a little peace of mind ^^ n well i think he's really mature to consciously adapt n manage how to show what needs to be shown in particular time/place right?
i would say even when i met him n he turned out to be a complete different person than what i thought..i'd still like him..n wanted to know his different side too..so its not much a matter then..
may be this quote is right : "curiosity can kill u" LOL xD
Ah~ nanachan! *hugs* happy that somehow my words meant something to you^^
I am sorry, my PS is very long haha.. I just can talk so much bout it when it comes to him, sorry if I might bore you now XD but my PPS: might be even longer.. =p
I was just thinking that you know, we fans expect too much!?
They are ‘entertainers’, it’s their job to sing and perform which comes with photo shootings and interviews and eventually tv shows where they have to live in that role of ‘entertainer’ it’s not like they signed up to live for a reality tv show that would show the whole world how they live and what they do even though that’s what we want to see.
We cant expect them to live freely and carelessly for the sake of some girls that dream about them XD you know what I mean? They work, very hard for something they enjoy and they want of course their fans to enjoy the final product too therefore they have to put aside many things they can’t show or don’t want to show because they think its not important for ‘work’. Yet I think the persons we see at concerts and tv shows and backstage are not people that try to fake a personality, we can see a lot of who they are just not as a completely ‘private’ person because there is ‘TV’ right? there are co-workers that have to respect them right? and so on.. yet it doesn’t make them ‘different’ persons I think.
Anyways, I really just want to know what he thinks he doing XD I mean, it is Tegoshi we are talking about, I think he just thinks more not being himself than he actually is. It’s just my point of view though.
And maybe it is just like Pichan said, Boys are dumb.. XD
I do think he is very mature, of course he is, that’s why he is friends with people way older than him which I can totally understand because I grew up with surroundings of a similar weight, no entertainment world haha but I grew up surrounded my adults only since my parents ran a restaurant and I was basicially on my own all day, I had very few friends my age actually only one and I couldn’t approach kids my age because I wasn’t used to the ‘childishness’ ~ well it doesn’t really matter but I can understand a little of how it is when he said he doesn’t feel comfortable around people his age or how it is to be growing up on your own and surrounded by adults only. It does make u a little different from the start because you will always be more mature than people your age. I was just thinking that even though he is very mature he still is only 22 and he has that silly side on him that he cant hide and shows a lot about how he ticks, and I think he still speaks before he thinks, which also shows a bit more truth than he wants to give away maybe. I dunno…I am digging too deep again. And I can only compare to myself… =P
I agree with you, of course I do! -> Tegoshi is just to enjoy n treasure every little things he does..hope he can cope well with his life..coz thinking him not comfortable of his life just making me really sad
All I want is for him to be happy, of course it would make me even happier to see that he is truly enjoying himself but we can’t ask for everything right? There has to be times where he doesn’t like it, when he wants to be someone else and leave everything behind, its probably just normal, just human. Although I still believe he is not human XD
ANYWAYS…. We can’t judge him can we? We have no right to do so. We love what we have, what we see, what he gives us - with his music, his acting, his laugh, his smiles and words. It’s not like he is coming up with things to say only because he has to say something, do you think? Maybe he is lying about ‘hating haunted houses’ or about that he thinks his drawings are improving, of course he makes fun of things that he would not have to act out but that’s just who he is I believe. There have been many things he said that were deep and meaningful; I think we can read between the lines of what it is like for him to be who he is. And there are things that we hear and see that are truly about the person he is. Anyways, he cried watching celine dion perform, doesn’t that say everything? Don’t think he would make up stories like that.
HAHA, I agree. Curiosity killed the cat, ne? -_-; I wonder what is worse, to die of curiosity or a broken heart? XD
By the way I think we are talking and digging too deep here, others seem to just enjoy Ryo’s stupidness again LOL *points at other comments*
Anyways it made me feel happier to talk about aloud ^~^ so thanks for listening *hugs*
haha i think giu-chan will be fine, if not she'll kick / block us soon XD let's wait and see.. =P
truth be told he isn't just 'ordinary' and will never be, and just like anyone else he must also have a hard time figuring out himself. If you read again what he said about being watched and appearing 'his best' isn't that just normal? I just wonder why he wants to talk about it, you know. He could just say things other than what he did, it would be wise not to say "i am not myself" - he still is clumsy at some point dont u think? XD he should know better somehow, but at least it makes us talk alot ahah..
HAHA, ppl will think we are creepy people? worse than any stalker? haha.. I don't mind, if i had the chance i would do anything to have a look inside his mind xD
but honestly, you know i just want to try to understand because i care, at lest i think it is an excuse to say why i want to understand =P
eventhough we should take this talk somewhere else or stop already, i keep reading about star signs a lot for many years because im interested in it and reding about scorpio doesnt that say a lot?
-> The Scorpio man has a magnetism about him that's hard to resist. His aura of power and mystery make him all the more enticing, as well as his unpredictable presence.
Although the Scorpio man appears likeable and easy going, he is also secretive and hard to fathom.
What you see on the outside is only what he wants you to see. Even when he's being friendly, there's still a danger to him, hiding just beneath the surface.
Ironically, this is often what makes him most attractive.
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so in the end we can not blame him because that's just who he is, he can't do anything about it and he doesnt mean any harm <3
I think that probably boys are dumb (lol). Girls can take decisions very calmly while boys have only unrealistic dreams.
Really? =/
Ryo: I have 3 great men: Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom (lol). They're all kind, interesting, funny, rich and have a good body, I want to become like them!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Shige: My ideal of man is the one who can coexist with a childish side and a adult side in him. I think men with such a gap are attractive. Then my conditions are being intellectual and being loved by family.
what a different topic they talked about.
i don't really like that topic cause not only do they talk about the same things somehow but also its getting them and us in a bad mood xD
anyway let me say something about tego ^~^
even though it might sound frustrating to read about what Tegoshi said
yet I can't blame him for faking, if he does.
that kind of lifestyle they have since like their early teenager years
how can they be 'themselves'?
people that work in offices and want to become something upper and important they can't be 'themselves' either, can they?
people that want achieve something, that have to fight to be accepted and liked.
how can they just be themselves and fool around when they are expected to be professionals, even though they might not have been at an age where you could or should expect them to be.
AND the most important thing I 'read' out of his words always is that it's not that he wants to be like someone else in front of other's but you can't give out your weaknesses when working in such important 'business' where it would not bring you anywhere. Because to me knowing your weaknesses is a main part of knowing who you are. And to be honest I myself would not 'be myself' if i were in any of their positions, even in School or at Work i never was 'myself', showing weakness for example to me is something i can't and don't want to do around others especially if they should "respect" me you know.
I'm not really feeling fooled by him because seeing him smile and laugh in real life is something different yet it never seemed that different from what i saw on tv. maybe u say he is a good actor xD then ok.. i just can't believe he is faking all of it, cant believe he never enjoyed himself when being with news or at concerts or stuff... that he might not enjoy interviews i believe, that even shootings are annoying i too believe. but he loves singing right? as long as he does and it shows (to me) then i'm happy with who he is and wants to show us.
They don't have much privacy and everything they say will be used against them so at least let them have their 'real selves' to themselves and their family.
we shouldnt not want to take everything they have.
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sorry i just wanted to say that because yes it is troublesome to read when you first read it.
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PS: LOL gomen but just something, I think that there are still many many parts of his character and personality what we see isn't faked. Also I don't think 'showing a different side of yourself in public' means that he (or others) try to fool us. I'd like to think of it as 'showing a different side' instead.
I do that too.
I wonder who doesn't. ^^;
Being yourself to me mainly means something like > letting down your defenses and just do things like you do when you know nobody is watching. You can do those things only around people you trust and feel comfortable around, you can't be like that at work.
But that's just my opinion once I thought about it if you think yourself into their position maybe you will notice things you'd do but normally don't realize what they actually mean.
I don't think if you meet him and get to know him you would think 'OH WOW HE IS A COMPLETE DIFFERENT PERSON.' no way.
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I usually think about the same things nowadays too. Well it's a little bit too philosophical for me (or us?) to think and consider about, but doesn't it worth to understand why people do what they do?
Your reasons to his not being himself are almost similar to mine.
Thank you for telling us. I am happy I am not the only one :)
People do things for reasons, don't they>
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it's a complex topic and I might have not expressed it 100% how i wanted but ..
I am just thinking that it's just human to show different sides of yourself depending on the situation, isn't it? Doesn't mean we want to play with people but also protect ourselves.
or something like that.. XD
Anyway if you 'study' his star sign you will see get an idea about his 'way of thinking' and so on.
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Sorry for the many edits, the topic keeps bugging me because it makes me question myself, not Tegoshi.
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The Tegoshi Yuya that we see is the Tegoshi Yuya that he wants us to see, it’s a part of him that he wants to display, a part of him that he is comfortable with yet it doesn’t mean that it’s not ‘HIM’, does it?
Sometimes it’s ok to fake a smile and tell a lie, but that doesn’t make him a bad person does it?
Also, he is constantly growing as a person, as an individual isn’t he?
He will show us more changes maybe in the future yet there will always be that part of him that stays the same, there will always be a part of him that is ‘true’ and that we can see, because he’s ‘THE’ Tegoshi Yuya and nothing can change that.
And only because he decides to show us ‘this’ part of himself doesn’t mean it is not him or that he is faking anything because that Tegoshi Yuya that we see does enjoy what he does, and only because he will show us this part of himself doesn’t mean he is a completely different person but there will always be certain things or ways or thoughts he has that he won’t be showing us.
I think you can transfer that same pattern to Yamapi, Ryo, Shige…and yourself, right?
There is always going to be that person that you are but maybe just like a rainbow, you have sides on you that you won’t show everyone for what reason ever.
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My answer is, we never know unless we have a sit-down talk with him. Yet, my theories are much further than that. If you consider him being the youngest, the one with less experience, the one who hates to lose, you will see: he has no choice but to 'create' a new him to fit in this entertainment world. It's not easy at all, all of us know that, but for Tegoshi to have accomplished that much, it's damn amazing! (I can guarantee that 'damn' is the last bad word I'm putting into this reply!)
So the 'he' right now is definitely the 'he' he wants us to see. As fans I think we should all respect and escape any skepticism. After all, him being an idol is to give us pleasure and joy; as long as he can do it, he does a good job. There is no reason for us to search deeply into who he is. Let's respect him, and love him the way he chooses to be. He is not going to let us down, that's the least thing i can say right now :)
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we all know about his debut and so on, wasn't easy on him i can imagine.
he is smart and knows what to do to get what he wants and in my eyes he deserves all of it.
agree also with that he probably worked hard for what he got now, its impressive to see how he grew and all, but to me sensing from the start it was meant to be, that he became who he is now. I mean his debut was pretty impressive, he literally did 'nothing' so it seemed to everyone and i can imagine he was pretty surprised too but he managed to keep it together and work for it even more, achieving more than he maybe has dreamt of that time (although i can imagine his dreams being really high already back then, he wanted to be internationally famous from the start huh? hehe..)
right right, i should stop talking about it already because we won't have something like 'an answer' which I think we don't even need ^~^
I just want everyone to respect and love him too.
Everything he does and gives us is more than enough and he must be happy with it too or else he wouldn't be doing what he does, right?
we can't do anything besides supporting his decisions, and I hope everyone will because he is not 'fake' just the person he wants to be.
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actually, before, I also have same thought with nana-chan. I'm worry, I'm confuse, I'm puzzled, I felt lost. I'm wondering which one I love, the simple him before or the complex him now. I'm wondering if I have a chance to meet him, get know of him then shall I see him as complete difference person. I'm scary if one day he'll make me disappointed. Because my feeling for him just too much so I'll be hurt badly if that happens and I don't want that. I had asked many peoples but no one could give me a proper answer.
But, after day by day, week by week and month by month, I start realizing the same thing as you, riina-san. Yes, that's right. Even those common people like us don't like to show everything about ourselves to others, so a idol like him has those action is not something too much. The entertainment world is not a simple world so he has to do whatever could let him easily stay inside it. I believe that he really enjoys his job as a idol, a singer; he enjoys the concerts and cherish his fans. He smile for him but for us - his fans - also and does everything make us happy. Even though he's fake of not, more or less, I believe that he's not a bad person so it's fine with me. And well, I agree with you that "showing many faces" can't be counted as fake
Riina-san, reading your comment makes me really glad >////< sorry for my long comment xD
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lol xD
since its too many..i'd just say i agree with u too, n u're in a way giving me answers..
it's not like i think abt it too much..nooo xD its an endless subject n will only tiring me out..
i do believe that being an idol since a really young age is hard..they dont live a normal life..they have many people watching over them..n of course judging them too..
so somehow they grow with it, learn how to behave n manage their own self, means yess...knowing weaknesses is one of it..
if i say my self is only what u see i am..i should be cursed of lying to u xDD
coz i'm not ONLY what i show my self..but still there's a part of me shown is DEFINITELY ME..only may be u dont know which xDD
so i guess its the same with them..what they show us..may be only one side of their self..n may be always there's something true abt them in that side..only we cant point which..i mean who knows?
all i hope of them..esp of Tegoshi is just to enjoy n treasure every little things he does..hope he can cope well with his life..coz thinking him not comfortable of his life just making me really sad..n who i am asking him to be all perfect..even thats what he's trying to do as his job makes him to..
still i believe he has this passion for singing n how he loves it..so yes..i think its one of his true self when he sings ^^
aargghhh >__<
its indeed one disturbing topic..things that somehow u have on ur mind but choose not to spit it out..coz its..just endless thoughts..
thanx Riina-chan for giving logical explanation abt him n his words..n a little peace of mind ^^
n well i think he's really mature to consciously adapt n manage how to show what needs to be shown in particular time/place right?
i would say even when i met him n he turned out to be a complete different person than what i thought..i'd still like him..n wanted to know his different side too..so its not much a matter then..
may be this quote is right :
"curiosity can kill u"
LOL xD
ps : Riina-chan u have a very long PS ne~? xD
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I am sorry, my PS is very long haha.. I just can talk so much bout it when it comes to him, sorry if I might bore you now XD but my PPS: might be even longer.. =p
I was just thinking that you know, we fans expect too much!?
They are ‘entertainers’, it’s their job to sing and perform which comes with photo shootings and interviews and eventually tv shows where they have to live in that role of ‘entertainer’ it’s not like they signed up to live for a reality tv show that would show the whole world how they live and what they do even though that’s what we want to see.
We cant expect them to live freely and carelessly for the sake of some girls that dream about them XD you know what I mean? They work, very hard for something they enjoy and they want of course their fans to enjoy the final product too therefore they have to put aside many things they can’t show or don’t want to show because they think its not important for ‘work’.
Yet I think the persons we see at concerts and tv shows and backstage are not people that try to fake a personality, we can see a lot of who they are just not as a completely ‘private’ person because there is ‘TV’ right? there are co-workers that have to respect them right? and so on.. yet it doesn’t make them ‘different’ persons I think.
Anyways, I really just want to know what he thinks he doing XD I mean, it is Tegoshi we are talking about, I think he just thinks more not being himself than he actually is. It’s just my point of view though.
And maybe it is just like Pichan said, Boys are dumb.. XD
I do think he is very mature, of course he is, that’s why he is friends with people way older than him which I can totally understand because I grew up with surroundings of a similar weight, no entertainment world haha but I grew up surrounded my adults only since my parents ran a restaurant and I was basicially on my own all day, I had very few friends my age actually only one and I couldn’t approach kids my age because I wasn’t used to the ‘childishness’ ~ well it doesn’t really matter but I can understand a little of how it is when he said he doesn’t feel comfortable around people his age or how it is to be growing up on your own and surrounded by adults only. It does make u a little different from the start because you will always be more mature than people your age.
I was just thinking that even though he is very mature he still is only 22 and he has that silly side on him that he cant hide and shows a lot about how he ticks, and I think he still speaks before he thinks, which also shows a bit more truth than he wants to give away maybe. I dunno…I am digging too deep again. And I can only compare to myself… =P
I agree with you, of course I do! -> Tegoshi is just to enjoy n treasure every little things he does..hope he can cope well with his life..coz thinking him not comfortable of his life just making me really sad
All I want is for him to be happy, of course it would make me even happier to see that he is truly enjoying himself but we can’t ask for everything right? There has to be times where he doesn’t like it, when he wants to be someone else and leave everything behind, its probably just normal, just human.
Although I still believe he is not human XD
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there is just a little more i wanted to say...
ANYWAYS…. We can’t judge him can we? We have no right to do so. We love what we have, what we see, what he gives us - with his music, his acting, his laugh, his smiles and words. It’s not like he is coming up with things to say only because he has to say something, do you think? Maybe he is lying about ‘hating haunted houses’ or about that he thinks his drawings are improving, of course he makes fun of things that he would not have to act out but that’s just who he is I believe. There have been many things he said that were deep and meaningful; I think we can read between the lines of what it is like for him to be who he is. And there are things that we hear and see that are truly about the person he is. Anyways, he cried watching celine dion perform, doesn’t that say everything?
Don’t think he would make up stories like that.
HAHA, I agree. Curiosity killed the cat, ne? -_-;
I wonder what is worse, to die of curiosity or a broken heart? XD
By the way I think we are talking and digging too deep here, others seem to just enjoy Ryo’s stupidness again LOL *points at other comments*
Anyways it made me feel happier to talk about aloud ^~^
so thanks for listening *hugs*
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die from curiousity i think as worse as die from broken heart xP
yeahh...we like plastered this Tego thingy on Giu's page xDD hope she'll be fine ^^;
aww..its not like i judge some idols or what,only many people do judge others..n yes thats bad xP
n soukon is one thing that i believe they showed many of their true self ^^v
even its just a tv show..so i hope NewS will be on a tv show again >__<
i think we need to discuss abt Tegoshi more in other place Riina-chan..really i wanna reply alot from ur comments but i'm sure it takes me pages xDD
yeah..i do feel contented to talk abt this with u n other fans..^^
*hugs back*
anyway..hope others who read this dont think us as some creeps try to dig into Tegoshi's mind xDD
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let's wait and see.. =P
truth be told he isn't just 'ordinary' and will never be, and just like anyone else he must also have a hard time figuring out himself. If you read again what he said about being watched and appearing 'his best' isn't that just normal? I just wonder why he wants to talk about it, you know. He could just say things other than what he did, it would be wise not to say "i am not myself" - he still is clumsy at some point dont u think? XD he should know better somehow, but at least it makes us talk alot ahah..
HAHA, ppl will think we are creepy people? worse than any stalker? haha..
I don't mind, if i had the chance i would do anything to have a look inside his mind xD
but honestly, you know i just want to try to understand because i care, at lest i think it is an excuse to say why i want to understand =P
eventhough we should take this talk somewhere else or stop already, i keep reading about star signs a lot for many years because im interested in it and reding about scorpio doesnt that say a lot?
-> The Scorpio man has a magnetism about him that's hard to resist. His aura of power and mystery make him all the more enticing, as well as his unpredictable presence.
Although the Scorpio man appears likeable and easy going, he is also secretive and hard to fathom.
What you see on the outside is only what he wants you to see. Even when he's being friendly, there's still a danger to him, hiding just beneath the surface.
Ironically, this is often what makes him most attractive.
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so in the end we can not blame him because that's just who he is, he can't do anything about it and he doesnt mean any harm <3
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Really? =/
Ryo: I have 3 great men: Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom (lol). They're all kind, interesting, funny, rich and have a good body, I want to become like them!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Shige: My ideal of man is the one who can coexist with a childish side and a adult side in him. I think men with such a gap are attractive. Then my conditions are being intellectual and being loved by family.
AGREED! XD
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