I just read something...
I try and tell this to people all the time... but some people just don't listen...
and now I read this xanga entry from some stranger... and I can't say this part any better myself! This random girl says it PERFECTLY!!
"Learn to live with yourself! Christ, this irks me the most. Before you quantum leap from one relationship to another, learn to deal with being alone. If you can enjoy yourself as one person -- not half a person --then you gain confidence to share yourself with another being, without losing yourself. This is something I intend to teach my daughter."
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http://weblog.xanga.com/tinahawt/663943465/stuff-ive-learned-as-a-21-year-old-woman.html
remarkable!!