Last night, I went to go see former abassador Ryan Crocker give a talk at Whitman College (his alma mater) on US Middle East policy. It was really interesting in some regards, particularly his brief history lessons, but it was also maddening to listen to as someone who was against the war in Iraq from the first hints that it was going to happen
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I had to explain to a couple people the other day why the majority shouldn't be allowed to vote for the rights of a minority. I might be totally wrong in my understanding of governmental process here, but it seems like the gay marriage movement needs to move from campaigning for individual states, where things are at risk of being sabotaged by the initiative process, and move towards a federal amendment allowing marriage between any two consenting adults. Yeah? Furthermore, I say dissociate the institution of marriage from the legally-binding contract between two adults who choose to spend their lives together. The churches can have their precious marriage and exclude or include whoever they want and the goverment can just just call it a civil union or a domestic partnership contract or whatever and remove the issue of morality from what is essentially a legal contract anyway. Right??? Vote Maggie for President!
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I'm also fine with all state recognized "marriages" just being called civil unions. I don't know what the popular opinion on that is though I would imagine most people who did not have a religious ceremony wouldn't care. Either that, or they'd go get a religious marriage.
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That's not to mention that if you're going to create a Constitutional amendment, you need a two-thirds majority in the House and Senate, and 34 states voting to approve the Amendment. If you can't get a marriage equality amendment to pass in *Maine*, a reasonably purple state, getting an amendment to make gay marriage legal in ALL states probably won't pass either.
I agree that it is a civil rights issue, and it shouldn't be left to a simple vote by bigots. However, under the government structures we have now, we simply can't force gay marriage through without running into what happened in Maine. It sucks, but I'd much rather work at the issue and win popular opinion (which is happening, slowly but surely) rather than change the way the government works and run the risk of getting shafted later.
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I also agree with President Maggie that separating civil and religious marriage seems like the optimal solution. To me, it's unfortunate that something like R-71 limited civil unions to same-sex couples and any senior citizens, rather than allowing civil unions for everyone. Maybe this would be the first step toward decoupling these two institutions: require all couples to have a civil union and leave marriage for the church or internet ministry. Yet, even though I prefer this kind of solution, I can't really imagine it going anywhere in the near future. And, of course, until these new-fangled civil unions were available to everyone and carried the same benefits, rights, (and risks) of current marriage this remains an important civil rights issue.
The degree to which anyone -- let alone a majority -- seems to oppose equality is just staggering. I can hardly wrap my head around it.
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But I completely agree about civil unions. Every "marriage" should be a civil union in my opinion. And the fact that we have to put up basic rights to a vote is ludicrous. It may be our system, but that doesn't make it right.
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I guess that this is yet another case of our wacky federalism fetish. Although that same respect for the importance of states' rights should be contrary to upholding DOMA, I'm skeptical that the current Court is eager to overturn it.
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