Question...
Okay here's my current situation with Katie. So we were supposed to be best friends which was one of the reasons that we broke up because friendship theoretically will last longer than the majority of relationships. And I believe her when she says the stereotypical let's be friends line because we are friends. Were anyway... So the thing is that now she talk to me in the most indirect ways possible if at all. Like.. we used to talk all the time on the phone, and texting during the day. Now she texts me if anything and it is hardly ever. She called me to ask me about this problem she was having with her credit card since I'm the only other person who has her card number and info. Turns out she just spent a lot and went over her balance. So I had 80 dollars in there.. but I gave it to her since she was like.. 150 dollars over. What a nice guy I am. Oh yeah.. I was also one of the only people who went to go see her on her birthday. I had planned a special surprise involving my present where I wouldn't tell her I was coming and would leave it on her front steps and wait for her to call and maybe she'd want to hang out. Yeah well.. turns out she wasn't home. So I waited around for an hour at the mall near her house. Then I called her randomly and checked what she was doing. She sais she wasn't around so I started to go home. She was busy so she said she'd call back soon. She found the present and sent me a TEXT MESSAGE saying thank you. Not even like.. anything but that. Just.. Thanks for the present. Like.. who else got you a present?! You can't call me and thank me? You know I'm near your house.. what we're not good enough friends for you to invite me in? Or how about I just gave you 80 dollars and then spent another 80 dollars on your present out of my own pocket. Grand total of 160 bucks definitely more than I've ever spent on anyone in my entire life. Oh but.. you know.. thanks is good enough for me. Not really though. I mean.. I even know it wasn't heartfelt. So on top of all that... She posts Myspace bulletings saying how she's lonely. Well everyone knows I'd hang out with her especially if my friends aren't around. Even my parents think she's just like useing me. I mean I see it but I wouldn't call it that exactly. The main point though is that I am pissed OFF. I mean I was browsing the web today and on her Myspace this dude was saying how he's looking forward to her party tomorrow. The one that she told me she wasn't going to throw. Yeah that one. I mean even if she isn't throwing it.. she considers me a best friend supposedly. On her fucking AIM profile it says 1 of three things.. one is "I will always love you, Ben. You are the best friend I could ever ask for." Does this sound like love to anyone?! Not me! Oh and then besides that I was actually thinking of throwing her a surprise birthday party so I asked her best friends who I knew to help and none of them got back to me. So great. THat was then. Anyway, knowing her friends if there is some party they will post crap about it and that will be a Que. If what I think is happening tomorrow then I am done. I taking down all this stupid shit that reminds me of her. I'm taking down all the pictures on my bulletin board, putting the shirts, socks, and underwear she's left at my house in a box, boxing up the shirts and everything else she has given me, and taking off this braclet, ring and chain that constantly remind me of her. Through all of this I have kept my morals dealing with friendship intact. As I friend showing towards one of my best friends I was there for her and did not doubt her. I went to go see her on her birthday and everything else to uphold what I believe is true friendship. Since she doesn't seem to give a rat's ass... then I am DONE with her. Seriously.