(Parental Content)
So, eeeeeeearly tomorrow morning I head out to Michigan to see the girls. Yes, I am flying. No, I'm not happy about that part.
It has become apparent that Scott is not going to act like a grown up and try to remain friends with me. He's treating me like I feared he would - like the enemy. *sigh* Good thing I have a good lawyer. She negotiated parenting time for me during this two week trip that is on the lean side of adequate. Good for her. You wouldn't BE-FUCKING-LEIVE how little he wanted to let me see the kids when we first started talking about it. Fucker.
The kids are all a combination of excited and stressed about the impending visit. I think it will be good for all of us though, really. In case the ex and I disagree my lawyer has hired an ad lidem attorney for the girls - to settle differences since he's treating me like I have some sort of catching disease. You know I don't really think he ever knew me anyway, he certainly never approved of who I was/am, so why should it be different now.
We'll see how this goes. I'm spending an UNREAL amount of money on this trip but to see my kids... I'd move heaven and earth. Wish me luck, lovelies.
It has become apparent that Scott is not going to act like a grown up and try to remain friends with me. He's treating me like I feared he would - like the enemy. *sigh* Good thing I have a good lawyer. She negotiated parenting time for me during this two week trip that is on the lean side of adequate. Good for her. You wouldn't BE-FUCKING-LEIVE how little he wanted to let me see the kids when we first started talking about it. Fucker.
The kids are all a combination of excited and stressed about the impending visit. I think it will be good for all of us though, really. In case the ex and I disagree my lawyer has hired an ad lidem attorney for the girls - to settle differences since he's treating me like I have some sort of catching disease. You know I don't really think he ever knew me anyway, he certainly never approved of who I was/am, so why should it be different now.
We'll see how this goes. I'm spending an UNREAL amount of money on this trip but to see my kids... I'd move heaven and earth. Wish me luck, lovelies.