We live to serve
There is an ongoing trope of GBLTQ people as servants, adjutants and otherwise assistants in the life of straight people. I say trope because we see this a lot on TV and in books, but really trope is inaccurate because this is one of those that has bled out a lot into real life as well - and it's deeply problematic.
In fiction we see a lot of side-kicks, a lot of side-characters, mentors, advisers - always there to lend a hand and support to a straight protagonist. And this leaks - ye gods does it leak - into the real world. Not just with so many GBLTQ people being unable to find a depiction of themselves centre stage - but also in how we're often treated.
Just look at the GBF trope. I don't really have to say more about it since I've already ranted about it a lot - but again, we are treated as accessories, servants adjutants to other people's lives.
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In fiction we see a lot of side-kicks, a lot of side-characters, mentors, advisers - always there to lend a hand and support to a straight protagonist. And this leaks - ye gods does it leak - into the real world. Not just with so many GBLTQ people being unable to find a depiction of themselves centre stage - but also in how we're often treated.
Just look at the GBF trope. I don't really have to say more about it since I've already ranted about it a lot - but again, we are treated as accessories, servants adjutants to other people's lives.
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