People Lie. Who knew?
People need to quit worrying convincing themselves of their own niceness. Why do people continuously and repeatedly lie to me only to create a false image of caring? What does it achieve? God sees past all manner of lying, so no real morality results in such a charade. I sincerely hope and wish that we can all cease our silly means of avoiding expressing our true thoughts. If you dislike someone, tell them so. Do NOT tell a guy whom you think is ugly and annoying that you think he's 'cute' or 'not bad'. If a guy is an asshole, tell him he's an asshole. Just be sure he really is an asshole and not just too damn smart for you.