Self-Righteous
A large majority of our population settles. They settle for their substandard. They have an idealistic goal (albeit a personal goal, a business goal, a educational goal, etc.); and as each day passes and that goal seems less and less attainable, they panic, or tire, or doubt. And then they settle. Most people can relate best when discussing relationships.
We all have our paradisiacal beauty. The perfect looks, intellect, and personality. Each person's is different. However, some of us don't believe enough in ourselves. We don't believe we can find the person we truly want to find. We don't think we're attractive enough, or smart enough, or interesting enough. And we settle. We find a person we know we can be with, and we're content with our catch.
Well, I think thats bullshit. Why settle for less than what we've signed up for? If I adore a girl who's five six/seven with dark features and a killer smile who isn't afrad to laugh or be outgoing, then thats the girl I'll be with. If i want a shy girl with a soft voice who will lull me to sleep at night, then thats the girl I'll be with. If I want a sweet girl who's nurturing and caring, then thats the girl I'll be with.
Don't think that just because you're overweight, or you have an acne problem, or you don't have anything outrageously interesting to say, that you're at a disadvantage. If you have a crush on that special person, don't be afraid of rejection. Each person has their own perception. Perhaps their ideal is you. You don't know the possibilities until you explore them. So gather your wits and courage, and set sail.
We all have our paradisiacal beauty. The perfect looks, intellect, and personality. Each person's is different. However, some of us don't believe enough in ourselves. We don't believe we can find the person we truly want to find. We don't think we're attractive enough, or smart enough, or interesting enough. And we settle. We find a person we know we can be with, and we're content with our catch.
Well, I think thats bullshit. Why settle for less than what we've signed up for? If I adore a girl who's five six/seven with dark features and a killer smile who isn't afrad to laugh or be outgoing, then thats the girl I'll be with. If i want a shy girl with a soft voice who will lull me to sleep at night, then thats the girl I'll be with. If I want a sweet girl who's nurturing and caring, then thats the girl I'll be with.
Don't think that just because you're overweight, or you have an acne problem, or you don't have anything outrageously interesting to say, that you're at a disadvantage. If you have a crush on that special person, don't be afraid of rejection. Each person has their own perception. Perhaps their ideal is you. You don't know the possibilities until you explore them. So gather your wits and courage, and set sail.