yep- my initial response is the exact same as megan: ARRRRRRGGGHHHHHHH!
how passive agressive is that? oh you haven't seen me in two years wah wah wah. has he made many efforts to see you? no. so fuck off. i could almost see it being passed off as a passive agressive joke, except the add on of try being positive boohoohoo. oh leah. it hurts me to see that he hurts you. and i know you blow a lot of it off, but the truth is it still hurts me, because he is not supportive of you and that's not okay. you are completely right in everything you have said above- he does not give you positive encouragement and is constantly down on your decisions. i mean, shit, i raised my eyebrows when you said you were going to move in with kate- because ANYONE who moves in with a friend risks jeopardising that friendship. it would be the same if you and i were going to move in together (we should so do that fyi. and get a cat.) but i didn't harp on you for it (i'm also not a complete negative asshole and didn't think it was going to crash and burn. but regardless of what his thoughts are; his conduct is so unacceptable. he could have talked with you about what is necessary and should be thought through before friends move in together, but instead he comes to the most negative conclusion. and who fucking cares if vancouver has no appeal for him? he's not moving here, you are. FUCK THAT. you are completely right when you call it emotional terrorism. it makes me so angry. i'm sorry leah, but i don't think he's a good friend to you. at all.
how passive agressive is that? oh you haven't seen me in two years wah wah wah. has he made many efforts to see you? no. so fuck off.
i could almost see it being passed off as a passive agressive joke, except the add on of try being positive boohoohoo. oh leah. it hurts me to see that he hurts you. and i know you blow a lot of it off, but the truth is it still hurts me, because he is not supportive of you and that's not okay. you are completely right in everything you have said above- he does not give you positive encouragement and is constantly down on your decisions. i mean, shit, i raised my eyebrows when you said you were going to move in with kate- because ANYONE who moves in with a friend risks jeopardising that friendship. it would be the same if you and i were going to move in together (we should so do that fyi. and get a cat.) but i didn't harp on you for it (i'm also not a complete negative asshole and didn't think it was going to crash and burn. but regardless of what his thoughts are; his conduct is so unacceptable. he could have talked with you about what is necessary and should be thought through before friends move in together, but instead he comes to the most negative conclusion. and who fucking cares if vancouver has no appeal for him? he's not moving here, you are. FUCK THAT.
you are completely right when you call it emotional terrorism. it makes me so angry.
i'm sorry leah, but i don't think he's a good friend to you. at all.
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