My theory on life
I used to get mad at myself, looking at all my flaws, trying to fix them all at once. Its impossible!! Now I look at who I was yesterday, and the years before and think of how I am better than I was. I don't regret, because there is no point and besides, it wasn't me that did those things. I am merely the person who learned from that moment, not the one who did it. Every action has a reaction, we see the reaction and change accordingly. You are never the same person you once were. It is just not possible. Its easy to love yourself if you are always innocent, if you know that you are eternally forgiven. As long as you take to heart the lesson taught to you by your past, there is no point in regretting or hating your past mistakes. God isn't going to judge you according to them, so why should it matter to you?