I'm such an old brag and gossip...
No, really.
Okay, I'll start from the beginning.
I judge.
I judge people a lot.
I judge people a lot for their choices.
The more I like the person (even if I don't know the person), the more I'll judge him or her for life choices.
Sometimes, though, I don't judge, and I am excepting of all the flaws and imperfections.
And right now, I have this nagging urge to judge a person whom I a) will never know in person, b) have no interest in the person's life whatsoever, c) the a and b were more than enough. And I want to judge this person for life choices!
No, I am already doing that thing where I have an hour long speech on how the person didn't make a right thing when he supposedly did, how ugly everything looks from outside about him, how despicable is the other choice he had made, how terribly wrong it feels to even think that such an educated and well-placed person could actually... okay.
How can one refrain from prejudice against things?
Or, rather, from pre-judging, pre-forming opinions?
Like, usually I'd say that most importantly is that the person is happy, right?
But we're always the ones Who Know Better.
Okay, I'll start from the beginning.
I judge.
I judge people a lot.
I judge people a lot for their choices.
The more I like the person (even if I don't know the person), the more I'll judge him or her for life choices.
Sometimes, though, I don't judge, and I am excepting of all the flaws and imperfections.
And right now, I have this nagging urge to judge a person whom I a) will never know in person, b) have no interest in the person's life whatsoever, c) the a and b were more than enough. And I want to judge this person for life choices!
No, I am already doing that thing where I have an hour long speech on how the person didn't make a right thing when he supposedly did, how ugly everything looks from outside about him, how despicable is the other choice he had made, how terribly wrong it feels to even think that such an educated and well-placed person could actually... okay.
How can one refrain from prejudice against things?
Or, rather, from pre-judging, pre-forming opinions?
Like, usually I'd say that most importantly is that the person is happy, right?
But we're always the ones Who Know Better.