Any photo ideas?

[soulsex]

Anyone have a good idea for an erotic photo? This would be (in keeping with my theme of my journal) an erotic nude of a guy. It doesn't necessarily have to be without subtlety, I mean, it can be something that suggests more than it shows. But I'd like it to be something I could hang on my wall, maybe not in a high traffic area of the house but

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[mais_biensur]

I don't have too many ideas for one of a man; I'll think on it and get back to you. I do, however, have plenty of ideas on how to pose for one. The cheerleaders at my university release a semi-nude calendar every year, and we were discussing it in the barn (some of the girls on my course are cheerleaders). I could do one sitting on the back of a horse, shot from the side to artfully conceal my girlie parts, and be holding a spandex American flag across my boobs, since I bring a little American flava to my university ;)

[soulsex]

wow, that's an excellent idea for a photo!!! Will you actually do this when you get back to the university?

You've included all the erotic elements that make a photo play in the imagination - the semi-nude aspect, sitting on the back of a horse (not showing your girlie parts), the American flag covering your boobs.

Awesome!

That's exactly the kind of idea that rocks...was thinking more along the line of a male erotic photo...but you captured the erotic "plays in the mind" part perfectly.

If you ever actually have this photo taken, you better show it to me!!!

[mais_biensur]

I'd like to. Doubt I will; it was an idea I had for fun after my friend told us about the cheerleaders' calendar, and then someone else told us about the time she was going to do something similar at college, but of course they were only 15 and when they got caught out there were issues.

I know you were, but I couldn't think of one right off and I thought you might enjoy that one. I will think on it, the male nude that is, and let you know what I come up with.

[soulsex]

I know we talked about this notion of suggesting vs showing before but I wanted to just ask you again....for you, is an image more seductive and erotic if it doesn't show all but rather hints and eludes to the whole enchilada (hey, you've got some good enchiladas in California...one reason to enjoy your short stay there).

[mais_biensur]

Yeah, I'd rather not see everything at first. That's why I don't particularly like porn. A bit over the top for me. And I like sexy lingerie; what an excellent suggestion! It doesn't get better than happening to wear a bra with nice straps with a tank top. I do it all the time when I go clubbing.

I'll take British cuisine over Mexican any day, thanks.

Oh, an idea for you: I have told you about the english boy I fancy. Well, I must also tell you about an old spy movie containing a great tease. The female spy is entertaining a man she must get certain important information from. She is wearing a black evening gown, quite plain, long sleeves, rather high neck. But when she turns around, the dress is completely backless. I think that's pretty amazing. So I bought myself a sleeveless halter top. I think I will be wearing it next time I go clubbing with him and his friends. I shall casually turn to go to the bar, and- bam! What do you think?

[soulsex]

I've been checking out some porn sites lately (free porn sites...LOL)...and i must say, i agree with you. To show everything and to do everything is not as hot as these people seem to think it is. However, having said that, for me, there is a value to checking some of it out. I turn away often. I can only watch for a short time. and part of me is wondering if I simply cannot get to a point where I feel these acts are not only OK but are healthy and normal. I dunno. it's just a thought, a question really

[mais_biensur]

You will. Maybe porn isn't the road to that. Talk to your guy about it. I had this sort of environment when I was growing up, which made it easier, but try to create a setting where anything like that feel healthy and normal. I wish I could be of more assistance, but all I can say is to give yourself time as well. Don't feel like it has to happen all at once. That's how guys get erectile dysfunction, I think; they get ahead of themselves, and then they get nervous that they can't deliver immediately, afraid that the girl will reject them.

I'll report back on a certain amazing englishman's response to the backless top. If I get a pic of me in it I will send it. Do you have a pic of J Lo in that dress? I want to see if I agree with you on that.

Of course it is! :) I'm soooooo excited to get back; I wanna get my english boy!

[soulsex]

I just have this idea that if i expose myself to the stuff, it will become "eh, no big deal." That was the initial idea with this journal. and that is one big reason I keep checking out the porn sites. I'm trying to take the emotional charge out of it, so I can just be more detached. Not an easy thing to do, at least it is not for me.

Check this link out: http://www.nyrock.com/features/2000/losgrammys.htm
You have to scroll down a bit to see the dress. Wow. I think she is one of the few people who could have pulled that look off and made it so hot. Let me know if you agree.

Which English boy are you after? I forgot where we were in the progression of guys.

[mais_biensur]

Well, if you feel like it's the way to go, go ahead, but if it's disturbing you too much, don't make yourself do it.

That's just too extreme. It looks like a dressing gown.

I told you about him! I'll email you about it; classified information ;)

[soulsex]

Mixed feelings about it, really. Sometimes I find it sexy, other times boring and sometimes just gross.

I thought she pulled off the look, actually. she has the body for that dress.

I know but I forgot who he is. I can't wait to get the classified info!

[mais_biensur]

Well, go with the feeling, I suppose. As we've discussed before, I think it just lays things out too quickly. Guys look at the stuff, but there's a reason they go back to us normal ladies.

She's a beautiful woman, but that was just excessively exposed.

I'll send a pic too. I've got an incredibly good one now ;)

[soulsex]

That's well said! I think that's true. The experimentation can be fun and in a way, helpful...but I do think we eventually end up back where we started, wanting one loving and devoted partner.

Definitely excessively exposed. Why do i think she pulled it off?

Can't wait...

[mais_biensur]

Oh, certainly. I don't want to experiment all my life. Like this year: in first term, I snogged random boys in clubs and the like, indiscriminately went in many different directions boy-wise. I don't regret a minute of it; it was great fun. But this term, I want to settle down a little more (with Phil, to be exact!), I want to have a proper boyfriend.

If you think she did, that's your opinion. I think it was too much, but that's just me.

One is coming your way.

[soulsex]

What is the current status of your pursuit of Phil? Has he asked you out? have you asked him out yet?

Yes, just my opinion.

Total coolness!

[mais_biensur]

I have e-mailed you with the latest; it's pretty juicy.

I have a new skirt which is quite revealing. I'll send you a pic when I wear it and you tell me if it's too short. It has built-in knickers, thankfully, but it is tiny. I do have nice legs though, which helps.

[soulsex]

I read that email just a few minutes ago. Eeeh gads! I think "pretty juicy" describes it well.

Looking forward to seeing your new skirt. How revealing are we talking about? Remember all our discussions about seduction and the power of suggestion (rather than showing)? The mind is far powerful, more powerful than any other organ, including those sexual ones (so I've been told and still learning).

Very nice legs!