HAHA Bouncers...
So I go to the Blarneystone every saturday with my Security crew. about 6 months ago I met this bouncer, he added me to msn, but we never really talked much. I put him on my "non-friend" msn so i rarely ever go on that account, and never really had very long conversations with him. In fact I didnt even bother to remember his real name, i just recognized the screen name.
On saturday I went to Blarney for my birthday party! I went with my security crew as usual, but the security guy who's arm Im always clinging to all night couldnt be there cuz he had to work late to cover the shifts of all the other security guys who wanted to attend my party. So I see this bouncer that I know, I ask hows he's doing etc, he asks where my boyfriend is and I tell him that the big guy who im always hanging off of isnt seeing me anymore, we broke up a while ago. And the bouncer goes, "oh, well what about that other guy who is following you around like a lost puppy all the time? is he your boyfriend?" and I say "no, thats just one of my best friends who i work with, im not dating him either." My bouncer looks surprised that im not dating anyone, then asks me for my number. I figure he's already got my msn, so why not? Give him my number, and he calls me 7 times while im still at the bar... then he calls me when he gets off work at 3am. we have a 2 hour conversation (longest conversation we've ever had) he was really needy, really pushy, really clingy... i didnt like it and turned my cell off and told him my house had bad reception. I went to sleep and woke up and he called 23 more times during my 5 hour nap. He left message after message on my phone and on my msn not asking but TELLING me that I HAD to spend time with him NOW. I said no a million and a half times, but he just kept calling. So i left my house to go to a friends house so i wouldnt have to deal with it. He calls me at my friends house, says he'll drive out to me (he lives in N van). So i told him i was in coquitlam, i would meet him at the mall (where i felt most comfortable cuz thats where all my friends are) he agreed and came out. I brought 2 of my girlfriends with me, and when i got to the mall i called my best friend in security to escort me around.
My bouncer shows up and FREAKS at me for bringing so many friends (even though i told him i was with friends, i guess he thought i would ditch my friends for him? lol not likely...) And then he got upset because i had security guys swarming around me like they were my bodyguards. This guy FREAKS at them for not giving me and him space, and then threatens to beat up my best friend Jayson in security. Jayson is teeny, but honestly he can kick ass if he needs to. My bouncer is twice jaysons size, muscle wise. He looks like one of those highschool gym teachers who takes too many steroids and yells at all the poor football players. So he was yelling and screaming at security jayson, jayson was being all "i dont want to fight you... i have no reason to fight you..." and Bouncer was all "WHAT TIME ARE YOU OFF WORK?! I'LL BE WAITING FOR YOU OUTSIDE!!!! RAAAWR!!!" *lol i added in the rawr for emphasis, this guy was annnngry!* anyways so jayson refused to leave my side. My girlfriends Atefeh and Lisa refused to leave my side. I was so happy. Bouncer was sooo angry! then all of the sudden... Security Jayson gets up and walks away... and i get scared cuz i dont know why he left me and 2 other girls with this extraordinarily angry man... But turns out Security Jayson spotted one of my ex's... one of my very large muscular ex's... twice the size of mr. Angry Bouncer dude... So my ex starts walking over to me because Security Jayson told him that i was having problems with the dude i was sitting with, so my Security ex come strutting up to my table and my Bouncer looks at me and says "Ohhhh fuck.... if this guy is here to check me out... im seriously gonna beat the SHIT out of him..." and i say "nonono... he's just another one of my best friends." so my ex comes up and has a long lengthy conversation with me, my bouncer becomes quiet and angrier. My security ex walks away after making a very public display that he knows all about me and cares about me and stuff, and security jayson comes back up to me to escort me out of the mall. Lisa and atefeh come with me. Bouncer guy swears at Atefeh in Italian, gets all pissy at Liser, and liser drags me out of there.
Okay, This whole weekend I was upset at people for being minor douches. I got in another fight with Lisa over something totally stupid now that I think about it. I was even upset with Atefeh because I thought Atefeh was avoiding me. But when I needed someone to be around me, Atefeh was there in an instant to be by my side so that I wouldnt have to go alone, and when I called Lisa, her spidey sense told her that I needed her and she was there asap. And the moment I called Jayson to tell him i was gonna be at the mall, he wouldnt leave my side. And Security Steve... haha, well even though he didnt manage to come out to any of my b-day parties (partly because I didnt invite him, for no other reason than i had another ex bf attending and didnt want things to be awkward) he was there in an instant once he spotted me on camera, and wouldnt let another man come anywhere near me without first being checked out by my protector... security steve. =D
Yeah, Im a pussy and can't defend myself. Yeah I feel like an idiot for not being able to say "NO" myself, I have to get others to say it for me... but I dont care how stupid and lame I look... I have the best friends in the world. And as stupid as I make myself look... the more wonderful my friends look like.
On the ride home I was crying because I was so happy... I felt sooo loved. by my ex bf, by my two best friends who i had recently been upset at, and by my best friend who i always avoid because i think he's creepy :P. So Im gonna spend all day making the mall security guys cookies and brownies and muffins and whatever their little hearts desire!!!! I LOVE THESE GUYS!! And I love my girls... I cant say enough how much Lisa and Atefeh meant to me at that moment. They made me feel as loved as Andrea made me feel when she came to save me from a sketchy parkinglot when my first boyfriend abandoned me. You know you have friends when they just SENSE when you need their help. Ahhh so loooved!!!! =D I wish I didnt have to leave for mexico in a few days, because I would love to just stay here with them forever.