Love and Feeling's
Something’s been on my mind about this, for the past few day's and its got me thinking...
this is what I think and what I’ve gathered from other people's advice in the past, from helping people with there trouble's and problem's, also from past experience’s...
if I were to sit down to someone who was cheating on his Girlfriend or flirting and messing around with other women this is what id have to say
you have a Girlfriend?, your in love, your both compatible, love is something that should last till the day you depart from life it's self, it's something that's supposed to never stop between two people, but sadly sometimes either one person or both people's love for each other fade away and they don't feel the same about each other any more.
your going round to club's and bar's flirting, dancing, trying to pull other girl's, when your girlfriend is not around, how do you think that's going to make her feel if you doing that behind her back?, she trusts you enough to think you won’t do such a thing, but if she were to find out, you telling her to lose trust.. and her love for you begins to fade slowly,
when you have a someone you who loves you, respect's you, care's about you, but up most important love's you for who you are, your suppose to treat them with utter respect and love them as much as they love you, it's not something that works one way it's something that work's both way's
she feel's disrespected because you've done that to her when she believe you wouldn’t do such a thing, her heart break's and shatter's, and she is not only disappointed in you but she is also sad and in tears..
When other's around you tell you not to behave in such a manor, there not doing it because there having ago at you or hate you in anyway there telling you for you own benefit, so you don't end up hurting yourself, and the one you love..
but if you were to continue you such behavior, her love she once had for you will vanish and might not or will be hard to regain, after that she will say it's over I can't trust you no more and I don't love you like I used too,
you will be sitting in a room feeling sorry for your self and have nothing left but memories of the great relationship you once had, and also having a broken heart, and think why did I do that... why did I have to ruin it all..
when your a guy you have to learn that once you in love with a girl you can not go doing these thing's you have to stay true to her and treat her with respect and honesty
if you do not, your a disgrace of a man and you do not deserve to have anyone, all you deserve is to be alone..
as I’ve grown up if learned all this from my dad to my flat mate's treat her the way you'd like to be treated by her, you would feel the same if it was the other way round, you'd feel the same feeling's as she did... and when you think about it.. It’s not the best feeling in the world... now is it..?
No’s asking you to be perfect, no one's asking you to be a saint, all there asking you is to change your ways so you don't make these mistakes, like everyone else has...
love can be like a knife cutting you deeper and deeper until your dead, but as shakespeer said...
*The path to true love never did run smooth*
when you get there it's the best feeling you can ever have, girl's can do the same thing's as well and us guy's do get those same feeling's too so we all know how it feel's at one point or another.
another thing is to think about she might not give you another chance she might but she might not, you could do one wrong thing and should could easily say we're done and loose all feeling’s she had for you..
I know I sound like a bastard but this is the honest truth, women like to be loved and treated like they where the one to be.. and you are there true love, and they want to be with you forever..
fair enough men can be idiot's and may seem like we don't care but we do care, sometimes we might not show it but we do care, if I find my one true love, all I want to do is cuddle her and make her smile when she's at her lowest, tell her how much I love her everyday, protect her from whatever or who ever may try to hurt her, even if it mean's I lose my life doing so, treat her like a queen, respect her care and love her for who she is not for her body or her look's..
But... that's just me, and that's how i am, like i've said to people before, im nothing speical, i never have been and i never will be, im just simon and that's all i know how to be..
like I say always think about it and listen to people when there trying to tell you these thing's cause if you don’t you'll just learn the hard way and it's not the best way..
This is all I had to say and I'm going to stop now, I hope when people read this blog they will find it useful but also think about who there with and what a great relationship they have with that person...
adio's and farewell.. Tell next we meet :)
Simon... ^^
this is what I think and what I’ve gathered from other people's advice in the past, from helping people with there trouble's and problem's, also from past experience’s...
if I were to sit down to someone who was cheating on his Girlfriend or flirting and messing around with other women this is what id have to say
you have a Girlfriend?, your in love, your both compatible, love is something that should last till the day you depart from life it's self, it's something that's supposed to never stop between two people, but sadly sometimes either one person or both people's love for each other fade away and they don't feel the same about each other any more.
your going round to club's and bar's flirting, dancing, trying to pull other girl's, when your girlfriend is not around, how do you think that's going to make her feel if you doing that behind her back?, she trusts you enough to think you won’t do such a thing, but if she were to find out, you telling her to lose trust.. and her love for you begins to fade slowly,
when you have a someone you who loves you, respect's you, care's about you, but up most important love's you for who you are, your suppose to treat them with utter respect and love them as much as they love you, it's not something that works one way it's something that work's both way's
she feel's disrespected because you've done that to her when she believe you wouldn’t do such a thing, her heart break's and shatter's, and she is not only disappointed in you but she is also sad and in tears..
When other's around you tell you not to behave in such a manor, there not doing it because there having ago at you or hate you in anyway there telling you for you own benefit, so you don't end up hurting yourself, and the one you love..
but if you were to continue you such behavior, her love she once had for you will vanish and might not or will be hard to regain, after that she will say it's over I can't trust you no more and I don't love you like I used too,
you will be sitting in a room feeling sorry for your self and have nothing left but memories of the great relationship you once had, and also having a broken heart, and think why did I do that... why did I have to ruin it all..
when your a guy you have to learn that once you in love with a girl you can not go doing these thing's you have to stay true to her and treat her with respect and honesty
if you do not, your a disgrace of a man and you do not deserve to have anyone, all you deserve is to be alone..
as I’ve grown up if learned all this from my dad to my flat mate's treat her the way you'd like to be treated by her, you would feel the same if it was the other way round, you'd feel the same feeling's as she did... and when you think about it.. It’s not the best feeling in the world... now is it..?
No’s asking you to be perfect, no one's asking you to be a saint, all there asking you is to change your ways so you don't make these mistakes, like everyone else has...
love can be like a knife cutting you deeper and deeper until your dead, but as shakespeer said...
*The path to true love never did run smooth*
when you get there it's the best feeling you can ever have, girl's can do the same thing's as well and us guy's do get those same feeling's too so we all know how it feel's at one point or another.
another thing is to think about she might not give you another chance she might but she might not, you could do one wrong thing and should could easily say we're done and loose all feeling’s she had for you..
I know I sound like a bastard but this is the honest truth, women like to be loved and treated like they where the one to be.. and you are there true love, and they want to be with you forever..
fair enough men can be idiot's and may seem like we don't care but we do care, sometimes we might not show it but we do care, if I find my one true love, all I want to do is cuddle her and make her smile when she's at her lowest, tell her how much I love her everyday, protect her from whatever or who ever may try to hurt her, even if it mean's I lose my life doing so, treat her like a queen, respect her care and love her for who she is not for her body or her look's..
But... that's just me, and that's how i am, like i've said to people before, im nothing speical, i never have been and i never will be, im just simon and that's all i know how to be..
like I say always think about it and listen to people when there trying to tell you these thing's cause if you don’t you'll just learn the hard way and it's not the best way..
This is all I had to say and I'm going to stop now, I hope when people read this blog they will find it useful but also think about who there with and what a great relationship they have with that person...
adio's and farewell.. Tell next we meet :)
Simon... ^^