PG rant...
ok so i made an appt 2 days ago to see the guy who is filling in for my OB while she is on vacation.
They knew when i made the appt that it was just becouse i have a UTI that wont go away, and not for my real appt that is next week with my orignal OB.
when i got there they were behind (dident matter i was happy waiting) and when i got in there guy wanted to do a full exam and everything. i was a little upset, i told him i have an appt next week with my OB and i came in just becouse i have a UTI that wont go away and im in pain and my GP is booking 4 weeks ahead.....
Then the guy filling in kept sayng i was 16 almost 17 weeks along (um dude, im 15 weeks as of TODAY!) and then wanted to do an Ultrasound for 20 weeks, and started to guilt me in to getting genetic testing, telling me since im having twins that there might be something wrong with them and that we should look at selective reduction ect...
I mean number one, i told my regular OB we dident want genetic testing, we dont agree with selective abortion unless im having a littler of babies...and even then we most likely wouldent think of selective reduction.
two, we want these kids more then anything, and even if they have issues we will still love them....
this guy dident even bother to do a urin dip on me, he gave me form to get a urin test done at the lab, i went and did that.
But what ticked me off was that the receptionist sorta played mind games with me, telling me that my OB will be on call that day and that there is a big chance that my appt that is booked for tuesday will get bumped? WTF??
So how do i go about talking to my OB letting her know that i dont trust dr's other then her (i have been miss diagnosed in the past by many dr's and given wrong meds from dr's that have made me really sick, SO i have a hard time trusting Dr's and have to build up with them, and i have finaly started to trust my OB).....
SO im just upset, and i feel like my needs wernt met today...
::oh and just so you know, im 24 and 15 weeks Prego!::
They knew when i made the appt that it was just becouse i have a UTI that wont go away, and not for my real appt that is next week with my orignal OB.
when i got there they were behind (dident matter i was happy waiting) and when i got in there guy wanted to do a full exam and everything. i was a little upset, i told him i have an appt next week with my OB and i came in just becouse i have a UTI that wont go away and im in pain and my GP is booking 4 weeks ahead.....
Then the guy filling in kept sayng i was 16 almost 17 weeks along (um dude, im 15 weeks as of TODAY!) and then wanted to do an Ultrasound for 20 weeks, and started to guilt me in to getting genetic testing, telling me since im having twins that there might be something wrong with them and that we should look at selective reduction ect...
I mean number one, i told my regular OB we dident want genetic testing, we dont agree with selective abortion unless im having a littler of babies...and even then we most likely wouldent think of selective reduction.
two, we want these kids more then anything, and even if they have issues we will still love them....
this guy dident even bother to do a urin dip on me, he gave me form to get a urin test done at the lab, i went and did that.
But what ticked me off was that the receptionist sorta played mind games with me, telling me that my OB will be on call that day and that there is a big chance that my appt that is booked for tuesday will get bumped? WTF??
So how do i go about talking to my OB letting her know that i dont trust dr's other then her (i have been miss diagnosed in the past by many dr's and given wrong meds from dr's that have made me really sick, SO i have a hard time trusting Dr's and have to build up with them, and i have finaly started to trust my OB).....
SO im just upset, and i feel like my needs wernt met today...
::oh and just so you know, im 24 and 15 weeks Prego!::