meme time!
Stealing this from Koki and Kibum.
1. Are looks important in a relationship?
Yes and no. One of my dear sisters did point out once that, though looks aren't super important, you still have to be able to wake up in the morning next to them and not get startled out of bed :-P I don't necessarily have a type (that I'm aware of) so I don't think they are super important though.
2. Are relationships ever worth it?
I'd like to think so.
3. Are you a virgin?
The only thing virgin about me is the olive oil in my salad dressing.
4. Can you commit to one person?
Yes. I'm getting to old to be pulled in too many directions.
5. Describe your perfect mate.
There is no perfect... different people bring different things to a relationship, and I think what matters is how the two people fit together. But I think what matters most would be that the person support me the lifestyle I've chosen, even if it's not necessarily what suits them. That they at least appreciate my passions, and try to understand why I am the way I am. But the love of animals is an absolute must. I tend to give my furry children more importance than I give myself.
6. Do you believe in love at first sight?
true love, no. But that sort've fairy tale dreamy 'love' feeling, yes.
7. Do you ever want to get married?
I would like to some day.
8. Do you forgive betrayal?
It depends on the type, what happened, apologies, and all of that, but I think it is possible.
9. Do you get jealous easily?
In certain circumstances. I'm not the type to get jealous just because a guy looks at another girl, or is a fan of a female celebrity, because I think it's just part of human nature. But any more than that and I might not be a happy camper.
10. Do you shower every day?
When I'm working, yes. But if I'm having a lazy weekend or something, then no.
11. Has someone ever written a song or poem for you?
Yes
12. Have you ever been cheated on?
Looking back over things in my past, and the people I associated with, I'm sure it was almost inevitable, but to my knowledge, no.
13. Have you ever cheated on someone?
It's not something I'm proud of.
14. Have you ever considered plastic surgery? I have, in passing. I've never given it serious thought, but I think it's normal for most people to look in the mirror every now and again and think "ahh maybe I should do something about that."
15. Have you ever had sex with a man?
Yes.
16. Have you ever had sex with a woman?
No.
17. Have you ever liked one of your best friends?
Yes, yes I have. In the end it wound up causing a lot of pain.
18. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?
Absolutely.
19. Have you ever written a song or poem for someone?
Not for someone specific.
20. Have you had sex so far this year?
Yes. Otherwise I might've had to be put in an institution. :-P
21. How long was your longest relationship?
Over a year.
22. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had?
I don't keep a running total, and this question doesn't provide a time frame.
23. How many people did you kiss in the past year?
On the cheek? The lips? What's with the vague questions? I'm one of those crazy noonas that people are afraid of that put people in a headlock to kiss their cheeks so.. I have no idea.
24. How old are you?
33 internationally
25. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say?
It depends. If it's someone that I just have a crush on, I'd say that's great and wish them well. But if it's someone I liked enough to really try to make things work with, I'd be pissed. There would probably be foul language involved.
26. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her?
I sat here for a while trying to think, but I really don't have a favorite. I like the whole package. I thought of things that were really awesome, but then would catch myself going 'oh but this is really good too...'. He just is the way he is, and that's what I like.
27. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept?
no.
28. Is there a boy/girl who you would do absolutely everything for?
Of course. I always want to be there for people.
29. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why?
Yes. You can't help someone who doesn't want help, no matter how hard you try.
30. Share a relationship story.
I went out once and did that one thing with that one person.. you know who I'm talking about right? That one person.. that does that thing..
31. State 8 facts about your body:
1. I'm short.
2. Despite my short height the pull of gravity seems to be extra strong for me. I trip and fall a lot.
3. I have little to no padding on my behind.
4. is drooling a body fact?
5. I'm horribly ticklish, but only in certain places.
6. I'm more flexible now than when I was a teenager. Yoga is good.
7. I get cold very very easily.
8. Soda metabolizes in my body to give me the mentality of a five year old. Thank goodness for everyone elses sanity it's only short lived.
32. Things you want to say to an ex.
I'd rather not.
33. What are five ways to win your heart?
1. Win the hearts of my furry children
2. Don't make fun of vegetarianism
3. Give more to others than you expect to receive
4. Give really good hugs
5. Surprise me by remembering little details that I don't even remember mentioning.
34. What do you look like? (Post a picture!)
35. What was the biggest age difference between you and any of your partners?
11 years I think.
36. What is the first thing you notice in someone?
Their smile.
37. What is the sexiest thing someone could ever do for/to you?
Sexy? ahh.. I have no idea honestly. Some things are just good when they happen, without any thought being put to it
38. What is your definition of “having sex”?
anything that results in a climax is some sort've sex isn't it?
39. What is your definition of cheating?
Being involved with someone else in any way that you begin to feel the need to keep it secret.
40. What is your favourite foreplay routine?
foreplay and routine are two words that should never share the same sentence.
41. What is your idea of the perfect date?
It varies depending on the person. Going out, staying in.. either could be fun.
42. What turns you off?
Bad attitudes. Ego can be sexy depending on what the person does with it, but having an ego that makes you think you can look down on others is what kills it the most.
43. What turns you on?
Many things. things as simple as kindness, to massages and sweat and who knows what else.
44. What words do you like to hear during sex?
I'm not that picky. Dirty talk isn't a must, but I can't stand silence.
45. What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you?
Just wrap me up in their arms and hold me tight.
46. What’s the most superficial characteristic you look for?
I... have an intense fondness for shoulders and backs. I have no idea why either. Someone once told me the only reason I ever drink in a bar is so I can get some guy to feel sorry for me and carry me home on his back so I can perv on it. This may or may not be more true than I realized
47. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you?
Surprised me with a trip to a place I'd only mentioned in passing that I wanted to visit.
48. What’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for someone?
How am I supposed to know that? I think if you do something just to get a specific reaction like "oh how sweet!" then it kind've defeats the purpose. Do things just because, not because you expect something in return.
49. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships?
As long as it's legal, I don't stress. What's right for one person might not be right for another. A lot of it has to do with maturity level too.
50. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?
relationship-wise, it's been a while. But for friends and the like, I told them I loved them last night on twitter.
1. Are looks important in a relationship?
Yes and no. One of my dear sisters did point out once that, though looks aren't super important, you still have to be able to wake up in the morning next to them and not get startled out of bed :-P I don't necessarily have a type (that I'm aware of) so I don't think they are super important though.
2. Are relationships ever worth it?
I'd like to think so.
3. Are you a virgin?
The only thing virgin about me is the olive oil in my salad dressing.
4. Can you commit to one person?
Yes. I'm getting to old to be pulled in too many directions.
5. Describe your perfect mate.
There is no perfect... different people bring different things to a relationship, and I think what matters is how the two people fit together. But I think what matters most would be that the person support me the lifestyle I've chosen, even if it's not necessarily what suits them. That they at least appreciate my passions, and try to understand why I am the way I am. But the love of animals is an absolute must. I tend to give my furry children more importance than I give myself.
6. Do you believe in love at first sight?
true love, no. But that sort've fairy tale dreamy 'love' feeling, yes.
7. Do you ever want to get married?
I would like to some day.
8. Do you forgive betrayal?
It depends on the type, what happened, apologies, and all of that, but I think it is possible.
9. Do you get jealous easily?
In certain circumstances. I'm not the type to get jealous just because a guy looks at another girl, or is a fan of a female celebrity, because I think it's just part of human nature. But any more than that and I might not be a happy camper.
10. Do you shower every day?
When I'm working, yes. But if I'm having a lazy weekend or something, then no.
11. Has someone ever written a song or poem for you?
Yes
12. Have you ever been cheated on?
Looking back over things in my past, and the people I associated with, I'm sure it was almost inevitable, but to my knowledge, no.
13. Have you ever cheated on someone?
It's not something I'm proud of.
14. Have you ever considered plastic surgery? I have, in passing. I've never given it serious thought, but I think it's normal for most people to look in the mirror every now and again and think "ahh maybe I should do something about that."
15. Have you ever had sex with a man?
Yes.
16. Have you ever had sex with a woman?
No.
17. Have you ever liked one of your best friends?
Yes, yes I have. In the end it wound up causing a lot of pain.
18. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?
Absolutely.
19. Have you ever written a song or poem for someone?
Not for someone specific.
20. Have you had sex so far this year?
Yes. Otherwise I might've had to be put in an institution. :-P
21. How long was your longest relationship?
Over a year.
22. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had?
I don't keep a running total, and this question doesn't provide a time frame.
23. How many people did you kiss in the past year?
On the cheek? The lips? What's with the vague questions? I'm one of those crazy noonas that people are afraid of that put people in a headlock to kiss their cheeks so.. I have no idea.
24. How old are you?
33 internationally
25. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say?
It depends. If it's someone that I just have a crush on, I'd say that's great and wish them well. But if it's someone I liked enough to really try to make things work with, I'd be pissed. There would probably be foul language involved.
26. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her?
I sat here for a while trying to think, but I really don't have a favorite. I like the whole package. I thought of things that were really awesome, but then would catch myself going 'oh but this is really good too...'. He just is the way he is, and that's what I like.
27. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept?
no.
28. Is there a boy/girl who you would do absolutely everything for?
Of course. I always want to be there for people.
29. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why?
Yes. You can't help someone who doesn't want help, no matter how hard you try.
30. Share a relationship story.
I went out once and did that one thing with that one person.. you know who I'm talking about right? That one person.. that does that thing..
31. State 8 facts about your body:
1. I'm short.
2. Despite my short height the pull of gravity seems to be extra strong for me. I trip and fall a lot.
3. I have little to no padding on my behind.
4. is drooling a body fact?
5. I'm horribly ticklish, but only in certain places.
6. I'm more flexible now than when I was a teenager. Yoga is good.
7. I get cold very very easily.
8. Soda metabolizes in my body to give me the mentality of a five year old. Thank goodness for everyone elses sanity it's only short lived.
32. Things you want to say to an ex.
I'd rather not.
33. What are five ways to win your heart?
1. Win the hearts of my furry children
2. Don't make fun of vegetarianism
3. Give more to others than you expect to receive
4. Give really good hugs
5. Surprise me by remembering little details that I don't even remember mentioning.
34. What do you look like? (Post a picture!)
35. What was the biggest age difference between you and any of your partners?
11 years I think.
36. What is the first thing you notice in someone?
Their smile.
37. What is the sexiest thing someone could ever do for/to you?
Sexy? ahh.. I have no idea honestly. Some things are just good when they happen, without any thought being put to it
38. What is your definition of “having sex”?
anything that results in a climax is some sort've sex isn't it?
39. What is your definition of cheating?
Being involved with someone else in any way that you begin to feel the need to keep it secret.
40. What is your favourite foreplay routine?
foreplay and routine are two words that should never share the same sentence.
41. What is your idea of the perfect date?
It varies depending on the person. Going out, staying in.. either could be fun.
42. What turns you off?
Bad attitudes. Ego can be sexy depending on what the person does with it, but having an ego that makes you think you can look down on others is what kills it the most.
43. What turns you on?
Many things. things as simple as kindness, to massages and sweat and who knows what else.
44. What words do you like to hear during sex?
I'm not that picky. Dirty talk isn't a must, but I can't stand silence.
45. What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you?
Just wrap me up in their arms and hold me tight.
46. What’s the most superficial characteristic you look for?
I... have an intense fondness for shoulders and backs. I have no idea why either. Someone once told me the only reason I ever drink in a bar is so I can get some guy to feel sorry for me and carry me home on his back so I can perv on it. This may or may not be more true than I realized
47. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you?
Surprised me with a trip to a place I'd only mentioned in passing that I wanted to visit.
48. What’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for someone?
How am I supposed to know that? I think if you do something just to get a specific reaction like "oh how sweet!" then it kind've defeats the purpose. Do things just because, not because you expect something in return.
49. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships?
As long as it's legal, I don't stress. What's right for one person might not be right for another. A lot of it has to do with maturity level too.
50. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?
relationship-wise, it's been a while. But for friends and the like, I told them I loved them last night on twitter.