yes, yes, I'm saying that bitching is great. That's why I have an entire entry where I'm doing nothing but bitching. We all have shit to face. And Ive learned we all have different ways of dealing with it. I'm also constantly rememinded of how young I am (not at 21, but just cause I have a naive idealist outlook on life) And I've learned something else. You can't tell people how to deal with their shit or the best way of dealing with it. Thats life, that's how you grow up. You fall flat on your face and you learn from it, otherwise it has no meaning to you. We all have to learn that we can't tell other people what is right for them. And y'know what works for us won't work for someone with a different mindset. And since I'm getting everything off my chest, I'm gonna go ahead and say it. I hate being mothered. (that's not smothered, but mothered) I have a very wonderful, nagging mom at home, and that's not something I want in a friend. I know I have problems, but it isn't your place to tell me how to run my life. At 23 you may have experiences I haven't had yet. At the same time, you have no idea of what all I've been through. I'm sure you like to be told what you're doing wrong about as much as the rest of us. That's something I'm learning to do with the people around me as well. We're all guilty of it in a bad way. And (not trying to tell you what to do but as a bit of advice) in your next apartment, don't go in thinking I'm the oldest, therefore the most responsible and in charge of things. And when it comes to making rules and whatnot, sit down, and get everybody's ideas. See where everyone feels comfortable. That sort of thing. We all came from different places and have all had different experiences. As far as the sean thing goes, that's still mostly between you and him. I think he's still pissed off about it. Fighting is his life. I understand what you're saying about being a different person, but I don't think the issue is resolved yet just because you think it is. Personally, I think it'd be great if you 2 fought again. perhaps it could be another learning experience. Just remember the rules of a friendly fight and no ball hitting...or biting for that matter. I'm bad about biting. Anyway, if you have further issues you wanna bring up, go right ahead. I'll be right here waiting.
And since I'm getting everything off my chest, I'm gonna go ahead and say it. I hate being mothered. (that's not smothered, but mothered) I have a very wonderful, nagging mom at home, and that's not something I want in a friend. I know I have problems, but it isn't your place to tell me how to run my life. At 23 you may have experiences I haven't had yet. At the same time, you have no idea of what all I've been through. I'm sure you like to be told what you're doing wrong about as much as the rest of us. That's something I'm learning to do with the people around me as well. We're all guilty of it in a bad way.
And (not trying to tell you what to do but as a bit of advice) in your next apartment, don't go in thinking I'm the oldest, therefore the most responsible and in charge of things. And when it comes to making rules and whatnot, sit down, and get everybody's ideas. See where everyone feels comfortable. That sort of thing. We all came from different places and have all had different experiences.
As far as the sean thing goes, that's still mostly between you and him. I think he's still pissed off about it. Fighting is his life. I understand what you're saying about being a different person, but I don't think the issue is resolved yet just because you think it is. Personally, I think it'd be great if you 2 fought again. perhaps it could be another learning experience. Just remember the rules of a friendly fight and no ball hitting...or biting for that matter. I'm bad about biting.
Anyway, if you have further issues you wanna bring up, go right ahead. I'll be right here waiting.
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