Another glorious morning...
So how do you explain to a 9 year old that she's not as much of a victim as she thinks? Her mother taught her the art of assumed matyrdom that it's quite well in grained. She's already spent her life blaming everyone else for everything bad that happens to her. I remember her mother coming home one day saying that her husband had hit her. She bitched about how mean he was, and how dare he lay a hand on her. We sat through her complaining for quite sometime until we got the whole story. Apparently, they had started to argue and she threw the hot iron that she was using right at him. And he hit her. He hit her? I'd have broken something on her. But of course.. it was HIS fault. Riiiiiight. And now her daughter is the same way. She does something and gets in trouble and it's because the teacher doesn't like her, or the kids don't want to play a certain game with her (they're probably playing another game) and it's because she's black. She can't seem to accept that her actions have consequences. My mother said that it might be genetic, but I don't now. I think my sister just bestowed her "I'm a victim" ideaology (sp?) on her. Is it possible to break the spell?
On a lighter note, I get to go see some guy this weekend. He's really nice and we chat together every night. Problem is, he's a cop, so he's not out. He talks like he's not interested in a relationship, but then tells me how much he misses me when he comes online and the other day he refered to me as his boyfriend. He obviously has the hots for me physically, and enjoyed my personality when we had lunch one day. But is that not enough? I'm being very realistic and not even letting myself think of us as a couple. I'm not going back in the closet, and it's not in his best interests to come out of it. Not sure how I'm going to handle it. Anyway, if nothing else, we'll have some fun sex this weekend, and lord knows, after that awful threesome, I need some good lovin!
I hate threesomes. Have I mentioned that?
Back to Everquest II I guess. Jes Suis - I'll get World of Warcraft eventually. And join your server to become an Undead mage of some sort. Necromancy anyone?
On a lighter note, I get to go see some guy this weekend. He's really nice and we chat together every night. Problem is, he's a cop, so he's not out. He talks like he's not interested in a relationship, but then tells me how much he misses me when he comes online and the other day he refered to me as his boyfriend. He obviously has the hots for me physically, and enjoyed my personality when we had lunch one day. But is that not enough? I'm being very realistic and not even letting myself think of us as a couple. I'm not going back in the closet, and it's not in his best interests to come out of it. Not sure how I'm going to handle it. Anyway, if nothing else, we'll have some fun sex this weekend, and lord knows, after that awful threesome, I need some good lovin!
I hate threesomes. Have I mentioned that?
Back to Everquest II I guess. Jes Suis - I'll get World of Warcraft eventually. And join your server to become an Undead mage of some sort. Necromancy anyone?