Jan 05, 2005 11:27
This is an old entry but it is worth repeating. I still have no answers on this. PEOPLE (COREY, by default you are the only man I know on here) I NEED YOUR HELP. My friend came home last night and was telling me about this guy she likes. They have been (mutually) flirting for a few weeks. Before the break she left him a note that CLEARLY said “here is my number if you want to hang out, call me”… so he didn’t call…. Which is fine but then he shows up at school and acts all excited to see her and ask her about all this stuff they had been talking about and says things like “If she is anything like you she must be great” I DON”T GET IT !!!!!
I can't tell you the amount of craziness I have been hearing lately almost every girl I know has started dating a guy who just disappears ..... it's almost as if guys our age are freaking out about the idea that we are getting older and people are starting to settled down. They think that all women are out there looking for a husband, so they start to date a girl and realize they don't really like her and run as far and as fast as possible in the other direction, to avoid the tears and the screaming. Men can not accept the idea that a women could be in it just for the sex ... or that women are also testing the waters and that they are unsure and scared too. We don't care if you are "just not that into us" but at least have the decency to call or let us know ...... make up some lame excuse but be honest about the fact that it is over .... trust me we won't fall apart... we will just move on.