help
is this wrong or not?
so i asked a friends girlfriend if it was ok for me to ask him if he could escort me to my prom just as friends. she tells me yeah its fine and its up to him if he does it or not. well i thought i should get her permission first seeing as she is his girlfriend and after i talked to her i thought everything was fine.
later i find out that she got pissed b/c he hadnt mentioned it to her and that it was disrespectful of me to ask her and she felt like he had planned it or had something to do with it.
then he gets mad at me b/c i asked her and it made him look bad.
he then proceeds to tell me that he's not going to ANY prom especially mine b/c i made him mad, he wouldnt feel comfortable, and he thinks its a complete waste of money.
someone explain the reasoning behind all this... im really confused and hurt.
this is what he said:
" you dont ask somones gf if you can take her bf to prom especailly if ur the freakin ex-gf! you royally pissed off uisa and made me look bad because she thought i had something to do with it...like seriously u need to fucking learn some respect cus thats just flat out stupid to do and rude at that...i never even said i was gonna go with u so u had no fucking reason to even think about asking her, it was my job to ask her about it, i hadnt decided if i was gonna go or not yet but i know now that i'm not, i'm not going to my prom i'm not goign to urs i'm not goin to anyones prom i think proms a huge waste of money wether u woudl pay for me or not, i would feel stupid goi nto a different schools prom and i woudlnt feel right and i woudlnt be goin with ur friends in the limo considering i dont know any of them and u just pissed me off last night and there are other ppl you can ask i'm no the only person in the world that is ur friend, why dont u go ask murphy or someone "
so i asked a friends girlfriend if it was ok for me to ask him if he could escort me to my prom just as friends. she tells me yeah its fine and its up to him if he does it or not. well i thought i should get her permission first seeing as she is his girlfriend and after i talked to her i thought everything was fine.
later i find out that she got pissed b/c he hadnt mentioned it to her and that it was disrespectful of me to ask her and she felt like he had planned it or had something to do with it.
then he gets mad at me b/c i asked her and it made him look bad.
he then proceeds to tell me that he's not going to ANY prom especially mine b/c i made him mad, he wouldnt feel comfortable, and he thinks its a complete waste of money.
someone explain the reasoning behind all this... im really confused and hurt.
this is what he said:
" you dont ask somones gf if you can take her bf to prom especailly if ur the freakin ex-gf! you royally pissed off uisa and made me look bad because she thought i had something to do with it...like seriously u need to fucking learn some respect cus thats just flat out stupid to do and rude at that...i never even said i was gonna go with u so u had no fucking reason to even think about asking her, it was my job to ask her about it, i hadnt decided if i was gonna go or not yet but i know now that i'm not, i'm not going to my prom i'm not goign to urs i'm not goin to anyones prom i think proms a huge waste of money wether u woudl pay for me or not, i would feel stupid goi nto a different schools prom and i woudlnt feel right and i woudlnt be goin with ur friends in the limo considering i dont know any of them and u just pissed me off last night and there are other ppl you can ask i'm no the only person in the world that is ur friend, why dont u go ask murphy or someone "