Do yourself a favor if you're ever involved in kink (though i think this carries over to anyone).
Never have the following conversation.
"Hi :]
I saw you sent me a request.
Did you follow protocol as asked?
Sorry to ask, but Daddy isn't home to check.
- Tyber"
"I did.. but considering you live in New York.. I'm sure no play will be involved.. I'm just looking for friends.. to get know. share things with.. you know.. the usual..
But i'm sure your daddy will have no problem in letting me in.. ;)"
I doubt I even have to explain what went wrong there.
If it's not, I'll explain:
I make it very clear on my fet profile (if one reads it, and everything's linked and properly organized to make that not hard at all) that
+ I only play with females (including mtfs) at the moment (this was a male who identifies himself as such)
+ if one even wants to friend me, they need to ask Ian. this is besides play. this is marked by a GIANT RED TEXT LINK at the very top of the page before all else
besides this, the fucking assume ian would be ok with anything, even if it's me wearing camo shorts right now, is ignorant.
Funny enough, ian will probably tell me to block this guy immediately (therefore showing how much one can properly assume)
I was proper in response but made it clear that type of nonsense is not ok. I made it clear he needs to work on his behavior and following clear protocol requests.
And I said I hope he learns/takes something from this letter.
I'll let Ian know about this when he gets home. If the guy does anything else I'll text him and let him know what's going on before I block the guy.
Sigh. Silliness.