I don't usually pay attention to these things. But this is scary.
You're an expert at keeping a plan in motion, and at not letting anything come between the beginning and the end of that plan. If all parties concerned do their parts, all is well. At the moment, however, someone you love and have probably counted on has opted to be difficult and deliberately stray from your arrangement. That doesn't mean you'll count them out of your life forever, but for now, at least, you'll put them on temporary suspension.