it's risky business (being your mistress)

Apr 11, 2008 22:42

hey guys.

so first off, lets start with something thats nagging at me. one of my friends, lets call her T, well...she's bulimic. yes, bulimic. how do i know this? well, let's start at the beginning. we used to be closer, not best friends, but pretty decent friends. this year, we only have one class together, one that she rarely comes to...she's been skipping so many classes so often this year. but T has always been somewhat of a person who doesn't necessarily do what they're 'supposed' to do, regardless, she's not a bad person, she's great actually; very funny. :D BUT, since I only get to talk to her rarely this year, my friend (who is closer to T this year than I have been) told me that she had to tell me something about T, that isn't good, but she has to get it off her chest. and that's what it was...T is bulimic and she had told my friend about it. now, T has had quite the past. 2 years ago, she'd been cutting herself, and last year she was...promiscuous? i guess thats the word. in any case, she's always been my friend. of course i've hated some of the the things she's done, but w/e. now, this has been bugging me all day. what do i do? of course, i can't tell her my friend told me w/o her knowing, or she would be really upset. so i'm going to make an effort to talk to her more often and see if I can pry the information out of her until she tells me...not that I'm sure that she will tell me. in any case, i feel like if i know this is going on, i should do something. my friend is in a good position to do something but what exactly? i don't know too much...i don't know how serious it is, or when it started. her family doesn't know.

thats another thing. she has nice parents, a nice sister, nice friends, everything is good...obviously something is bothering her...but what? why? i don't get it. i wish i did. she told a teacher about it, who has been very hopeless and useless...which is sad. i would expect more. her parents didn't even know how often she'd been missing class. i just...i don't know.
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