Comments | soleta_nf: And then it happens. Just like that. My world stops.

soleta_nf

And then it happens. Just like that. My world stops.

Jun 05, 2006 23:48

My grandmother died tonight ( Read more... )

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ciaracat June 6 2006, 05:12:05 UTC

***HUG***

I'm so sorry. My thoughts and my prayers are with you.

I'm sorry I'm not closer; wish I could come by and give you a real hug!

I'm here if you want to talk!

And please remember that it's important at times like this to keep focusing back on taking care of yourself. Basic things like eating regularly even though you have no appetite (that Kraft dinner you put away was your dinner tonight?) and to try to get sleep if you can (and you can always get up and put on a DVD for awhile if you can't, and maybe have a glass of wine and then try again). [/lecture off]

Hopefully your work will be understanding!

*HUG*

soleta_nf June 6 2006, 05:23:12 UTC

Thanks. That's good advice. I will try. As it is, there's no way I am getting much sleep tonight. I am going to take a bath, and then I will try to go to sleep, only resorting to DVDs if I can't. *sad smile*

ciaracat June 6 2006, 05:33:13 UTC

I know. And like you were saying, it's all still so very fresh. My timing's off too. :)

Sending lots of good thoughts and prayers up that way!

soleta_nf June 6 2006, 05:35:16 UTC

Thank you. I really appreciate that.

I am getting such the seriously intense headache now. *sigh*

ciaracat June 6 2006, 05:39:06 UTC

Warm damp washcloth to lay on your eyes? Helps a bit with the crying-swelling.

Drink some water?

*HUG*? :)

soleta_nf June 6 2006, 05:40:13 UTC

Good idea. In direct opposition to my last (happy!) post, I am ignoring my water cup and my body's mad at me for it. Subconsciously punishing myself much?

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