Weekend to myself...

[soleia_]

And all I'm doing is cleaning. I can't believe it's already May, and I need to get my place packed soon. It looks like it's going to cost me about $2000-$2500 for movers, but that's all-inclusive (taxes, gas, etc). I think it's worth it to not have to worry about anything, especially since I also need to get my car, Sophia, 2 cats, and a hamster up

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[soleia_]

Aw, thanks so much. :) You wow me constantly, too, ya know. I'd be happy to be half the mom that you are for your kids every day. Even though Sophia and I can sometimes have a volatile and rocky relationship, we're truly close, and I value that she's extremely strong-willed, independent, and opinionated about everything.

But anyway, it's taken me a lot of work to get here, that's for sure. The first year I was here on my own was really hard on both me and Sophia. We were both really bad off for a long time, but we managed to find our way out of it together. I've learned how to not let things get to me, especially things out of my control.

What really stresses me out most now is when Sophia isn't happy or is struggling. This is why I'm worried about the move because I know it will be hard on her for awhile. But I truly believe we'll both be happier there.

Isn't it funny how male doctors would be more compassionate about female issues than female doctors? I truly believe it now, though!

I'm definitely ready for an active sex life! It's been faaaar too long. And more importantly, I'm ready for a relationship again. Living here alone for 3 years has taught me how to be happy on my own, so for the first time I feel really ready to have someone else in my life, in a healthy way. I'm not about to go searching for someone because I know that never works, but I'll certainly have my eyes open!

[aellwynde]

I'm not wowing anyone just now... if you haven't read, I quit my job today. I don't know how you keep up with everything.

*wonders if there will be a sexy filter when the activity comes along...* ;)

[soleia_]

There's nothing wrong with quitting your job! You're in full-time mom mode, and I really wish I had the option to do that sometimes. You really shouldn't feel bad about it, with everything else you do for your family, school, neighbors, etc. I think both of us have more than enough on our plates, and I think we're both doing a pretty damn good job and should both be proud. :)

I'll definitely be reporting some of the sexy activity once it arrives. ;)

[aellwynde]

Full plates... yup, both of us, methinks. Is it weird that I love being a full time mom? I think I was just born in the wrong time period. :)

Looking forward to living vicariously through you. Get to it!