Experiment
Try out an experiment on myself.I am terrible about buy things for myself. This morning is a great example - my Dad sent me a Kohl's card for my b-day. I went this morning and bought stuff for G - nothing for me. So we got some prepaid visa cards as a Thank you for changing gas companies. I decided I have to spend them on frivolous stuff. So far I have taken the kids to a movie I wanted to see, and gone out to breakfast and lunch. I have a feeling that at the end I am going to see that I spent most of it on food.