o.@ Getting ooollld
Yeah, so i turned 29.. *checks watch* yesterday. Kinda underwhelming since the entire past few months has been focused on my brother's wedding and this last month a pair of visits to the ER with mother's heart problems so I keep telling family to just forget it this year, but they still managed to sneak in 3 very sinful giant cookie 'cake's to the rehearsal dinner tonight. Unfortunately the booze was too weak so i didn't even get buzzed, but I had to drive home so that's probably a good thing.
Wedding stuff... I really can't wait until it's over. Not because of my involvement, or the prep, or the anticipation.. but just because there is so much drama and angst going around because of it, it's putting most of both families on edge. Between who gets assigned what to do, people wanting to help but not being allowed to, people being expected to help but not doing so (because they were not told), people being too bossy just for the sake of being bossy... people being late to their own rehearsal (and probably their own wedding... odds are about 75% in favor of that.
Assuming I ever get another nice cute girlfriend with a level head that i'd want to marry.. we're sooo going to vegas. Evite will go out, if you show up, we all go to the buffet.. if not, that's cool too. None of this crazy setup crap i've been seeing.. it's just too much and even at only 29, i'm far too old for this shit. I really shouldn't have to play moderator just because my brother is too stressed to just admit to his groomsmen that he needs them for support instead of ordering them around like children. Not exactly the way to inspire trust and build friendships.
Anyways, I am really looking forward to next weekend and thanks so much everyone for the warm birthday wishes.. my heart was with all of you even if i was trapped among the famn damily!
Wedding stuff... I really can't wait until it's over. Not because of my involvement, or the prep, or the anticipation.. but just because there is so much drama and angst going around because of it, it's putting most of both families on edge. Between who gets assigned what to do, people wanting to help but not being allowed to, people being expected to help but not doing so (because they were not told), people being too bossy just for the sake of being bossy... people being late to their own rehearsal (and probably their own wedding... odds are about 75% in favor of that.
Assuming I ever get another nice cute girlfriend with a level head that i'd want to marry.. we're sooo going to vegas. Evite will go out, if you show up, we all go to the buffet.. if not, that's cool too. None of this crazy setup crap i've been seeing.. it's just too much and even at only 29, i'm far too old for this shit. I really shouldn't have to play moderator just because my brother is too stressed to just admit to his groomsmen that he needs them for support instead of ordering them around like children. Not exactly the way to inspire trust and build friendships.
Anyways, I am really looking forward to next weekend and thanks so much everyone for the warm birthday wishes.. my heart was with all of you even if i was trapped among the famn damily!