May 10, 2013 12:04
I notice that most of the problems today is the mis-communications of needs and wants, offers and selling: what is sold vs what is delivered, what is expected vs what is given.
First, look at work.
You want to make the most money you cam. Work wants to pay you the least it can.
Most people want to put in the least amount of work for the most amount of money, work want the most amount of work for the least amount of money.
I see that work wants you to be loyal and have the same principles as them, the same method of behavior, be One of them.
But, don't you have to change who you are to do that? Won't you have to do that if you move jobs? Didn't you do that from your last job? So would you consider that wavering? Being able to be bought?
Society: I see people wanting you to be nice to them and respectful right off the bat, but they also want to be allowed to be themselves and of others have a problem with it, they should get over it.
People want loyalty, but most of them are the first to show disloyalty.
I see a type of woman that goes for mysterious, aggressive, playboys. But what if that same behavior is turned on them?
I, myself, am attracted to this one woman that is flirty and huggy with me even thought she's already in a relationship. Do I want her to be that way with other guy if we ever get together?
I see politicians trying to get elected by being One of the People, being Like us, but what are they once they are up there?
They are supposed to represent us, but they are in a different class than us, definitely not the same, therefore Not a representative Of us.
Look at commercials.
don't look at what they are selling, look at How they are selling it.
Food/tv dinners: they look like they are using a slow technique, individual attention, fresh, unprocessed ingredients. Love and caring.
Do you know the reality of the people who make this food? As fast as possible, huge batches, uniform, premade/preprocessed food products, You can't love or care about something that way.
Even in a restaurant, its all about batches and speed,
Cars: they show you windy roads with professional drivers, speeding, and whipping around corners, "Taking the road". There is even a small line at the bottom, "Professional driver on a closed course, do not try this"
So they are selling you in things that you aren't supposed to do on your own, make things which are, in fact, illegal.
Many commercials sell themselves as an addition to an exciting lifestyle. Do they have departments that insure that these things happen?
What about the ones that sell by pulling on memories or being sentimental. What's most likely to be in a garage sale later?
I notice that most people want to bend the rules but want others to stick to the rules. A. You are the Other person to everyone else.
There are people who want to be Human. Well, "human" comes with emotions, gifts, faults, reason, excuses, an individual mind, ego, desires, perspective, touch, flesh, lust, bodily functions, pain, a heart, and spirit.
Denying any of it denies parts of your humanity. putting machines into yourself makes you part machine, not more human.
What you expect from other people, first DO yourself.
psychology,
rant