the thing is, that there are tons of things that people do that are horrible that are against the law... and this is just a decision. it's a personal task that someone takes care of....
not to mention, abortion is NOT the easy way out. i mean... it's just not something somebody randomly decides they want to do and runs out and does it... like buying a sweater at a store and taking it back because they don't want it. or someone making them dinner and then they throw it down the disposal. it really isn't that easy.
i'm not ragging on you or anything, i'm just stating my view, now, and... because i've seen abortion, too, so close to home, i know for a fact it isn't simple or easy to deal with. there are just certain situations.
i'm not saying that i wish my cousin weren't alive, or that her life isn't worth living, but it is so completely fucked up that i feel bad she has to go through it. and the child before her was aborted. and the children before died.
i dont' know... it's a tough situation. and that's why i think it's up to the individual to decide if they want to make it or not. if you were ever in a massive pickle and had to decide what you would want to do or not, you'd have the baby, is what you are saying. maybe you wouldn't even have to think twice about it. but you just dont know that, do you? you probably do, your mind seems made up and it's great that you have an opinion. i don't know what i would do. it would take great thought and i won't ever be able to decide unless i get into a predicament that directly affects me and i have to choose.
every situation is different. every person is different.
i guess there must be some people who just don't care, but out of these percentages, out of these 4000 abortions everyday, do you think somebody just snaps their fingers and says "well it has to be done" and they go through with it and it's overwith? no. no that's not it at all.
my grandma is super religious and my aunt never told her she got the abortion. but it was my aunt's choice, and i don't know what she would have done with the baby, as an unstable person to begin with. having a living child has already shown her insanity on the brink and the one who's lived is paying for her mother's mistakes all the time and they can't stand each other to begin with. i dont' know. i'm always bringing up my family i guess but they relate to a lot of stuff.
what i'm trying to say is that in my opinion, it is the individual's choice and if they are racked with guild then so be it... because if you are saying that people shouldn't do it and you think it's wrong, then that is their punishment for "taking the easy way out with abortion."
i'm not mad at you and i hope you aren't mad at me. it's just a sensitive issue with people, as you've stated it is for you in the latter.
i respect your opinion totally. and i see where your coming from. i do actually think that some of them are just snapping their fingers though, and i think that is what scares me the most. actually i know they are. and that is the sick part. and of course it is a hard decision.
not to mention, abortion is NOT the easy way out. i mean... it's just not something somebody randomly decides they want to do and runs out and does it... like buying a sweater at a store and taking it back because they don't want it. or someone making them dinner and then they throw it down the disposal. it really isn't that easy.
i'm not ragging on you or anything, i'm just stating my view, now, and... because i've seen abortion, too, so close to home, i know for a fact it isn't simple or easy to deal with. there are just certain situations.
i'm not saying that i wish my cousin weren't alive, or that her life isn't worth living, but it is so completely fucked up that i feel bad she has to go through it. and the child before her was aborted. and the children before died.
i dont' know... it's a tough situation. and that's why i think it's up to the individual to decide if they want to make it or not. if you were ever in a massive pickle and had to decide what you would want to do or not, you'd have the baby, is what you are saying. maybe you wouldn't even have to think twice about it. but you just dont know that, do you? you probably do, your mind seems made up and it's great that you have an opinion. i don't know what i would do. it would take great thought and i won't ever be able to decide unless i get into a predicament that directly affects me and i have to choose.
every situation is different.
every person is different.
i guess there must be some people who just don't care, but out of these percentages, out of these 4000 abortions everyday, do you think somebody just snaps their fingers and says "well it has to be done" and they go through with it and it's overwith? no. no that's not it at all.
my grandma is super religious and my aunt never told her she got the abortion. but it was my aunt's choice, and i don't know what she would have done with the baby, as an unstable person to begin with. having a living child has already shown her insanity on the brink and the one who's lived is paying for her mother's mistakes all the time and they can't stand each other to begin with. i dont' know. i'm always bringing up my family i guess but they relate to a lot of stuff.
what i'm trying to say is that in my opinion, it is the individual's choice and if they are racked with guild then so be it... because if you are saying that people shouldn't do it and you think it's wrong, then that is their punishment for "taking the easy way out with abortion."
i'm not mad at you and i hope you aren't mad at me.
it's just a sensitive issue with people, as you've stated it is for you in the latter.
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and i see where your coming from.
i do actually think that some of them are just snapping their fingers though, and i think that is what scares me the most. actually i know they are. and that is the sick part. and of course it is a hard decision.
im definitely not mad at you.
i love you!
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