August and Everything After

[soccer_mom56]

I didn't don't want to do this.

For the first time in over a decade, I didn't make a birthday phone call to a friendFor reasons unknown to me (really), a friend of mine informed me that she (and how could it be a male?) no longer wanted to remain friends. With no explanation. Ever. I've got a theory, but I think that she would realize how

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[soccer_mom56]

She would hate (and will hate it when she reads this), but I KNOW her.
In fact, I KNOW that she will be reading this :)

Hi!

Since she will be reading (and not responding), allow me to present my GRAND THEORY.
1. She is afraid/uncomfortable meeting people online in person. In fact, she has cut off contact with almost everyone that she used to be friends with online.

Much of it has to do with her "maturing" as she puts it although ending relationships of 10+ years without explanation is hardly mature. :P

After talking to her daily for years, I took a trip and had a choice of layovers, so I chose her city.

I told her well in advance when I'd be there and we made plans to meet up, but sure enough, at the scheduled time, she wouldn't answer her phone.

She later apologized for "oversleeping" although it was late afternoon and who "oversleeps" when they want to meet a friend from out of town who is coming ONCE?

Btw, I don't usually come only once.

Not to mention, there's a guy online who sold his bike or car (or something) to be able to afford to buy a ticket to visit her. That prompted her to break up with him, not telling him and forcing ME to deal with him.

Oh yeah, my theory.

She is badly wanting to have a wedding soon and she is mentally planning it and she doesn't know how to NOT invite me, so this is how she is ending it.

She's too embarrassed that she has no good reason for doing it, so she never bothered to tell me.