Mar 16, 2008 16:44
There is nasty rage-y flailing at me! WTF, I say!
The boyfriend has an ex. Apparently, our terms of association overlapped, though I'm told by the Dude that the relationship between himself and the ex was pretty much all over but the bloodletting when we met, and was also conducted almost entirely online.
Meh. Online relationships without any basis in the face-to-face world may work for some people, but I tend to regard them as largely potential, and not really serious. Maybe I'm wrong; tell me why I am. I'm still calling it an intense flirtation, rather than an actual relationship.
Regardless, I've heard rather little about her, beyond a few basics: female, exists, kinda excitable. OK, probably more, but I've forgotten any details if I ever knew them. I do that. She isn't relevant to me, so I don't think about her. Criminy, I don't even remember her name.
BUT. The ex seems to think I've had an encyclopaedic rundown of their time 'together', and perhaps I spend my time with him rehashing the funniest bits and cackling like one of the witches out of Macbeth, and... I don't know, burning her in effigy or something. So she's upset, because she still speaks to her-ex-whom-she-hates-for-his-crimes-against-her (apparently It's Complicated on her end) and I guess he's told her that she was discussed at some point. Well, of course. Who doesn't discuss their exes with the new SO?
I don't know. Maybe she figures I'm getting the daily bulletin on her life. Not the case, as I don't give a toss what she does, but there you have it. The Dude tipped me to her public LJ-entry, which includes capslock, mild incoherence, red text, and nasty I'm-a-victim-woe-is-me sniping at HIM, as well as me. It's actually almost funny, as I've never had a chick freak out at ME because of something her-ex-my-lover did/said/Sharpie'd on a wall before.
hell is other people,
ritual humiliation in the pursuit of sex,
interrobang moment,
stupidity is painful,
that guy i live with,
wtf?,
i'm not sure that really happened,
no fair making my brain hurt