Sep 29, 2005 23:38
UGH. Okay, so Emily has a small problem. It involves boys (fake surprise) and friendship (actual surprise). My entire life I have preferred hanging out with guys. My best friend when I was little was Jim, it's just this... thing. And last year was no exception. Most of the people I hung out with and never had drama with were GUYS. I could always just go to the quad and watch football with my boys, no big. Here comes the problem: all the guys here have girlfriend, like...
anonymous guy: I'm afraid you'll try to get me in bed. and I won't be able to resist because you're hot and I'll be drunk.
This was the reason he gave for not wanting to drink with me. And then there is another guy who has a girlfriend and feels uncomfortable hanging out with me. WHY IS THIS?
Not to be vain, but is it really that these guys are simply so attracted to me (and anon actually is... so whatever) that they are afraid to let their guard down around me and be friends with me for fear that they might do something that might constitute cheating?! I think Rae's stupid ladder might be right. UGH.
comment, bitches.
oh, and comment on the previous post, which is a bit contradictory to this one.
love you all!