homophobia and sexual awakening recs

[seizansha]

are there any/many fics where their relationship is seen as wrong? alot of the slash has homosexuality as a norm in the Wizarding world, but considering how far behind it is to the Muggle world it really shouldn't be. i'm looking for any fics where the homophobia's so rampant that Harry and Snape have to hide their relationship.

the other request is for fics where either one realizes they are gay because of their feelings for the other, Harry or Severus realizing it. something where one is a complete novice at the relationship, so much so they don't even understand how they could have sex.