Weddings, DVD tour...!
Writing for myself again!
today, one friend of mine got married!!!! i was kinda late for the wedding, (the ceremonial) but i get to see the whole ceremony =D
i take pictures.... ill post one, when i finish my....thoughts.
So, while she was getting married, i was thinking about the day i get married.
I thought about the things that the priest (i'm part of the Catholic Church) will going to say about me in the ceremony...and other stuff!
i couldn't help to think why people spend so much money in a wedding
why is so important to celebrate, why we get so hyper about only one day....!
LONG TIME AGO, (Way long ago) Marriage was supposed to be a decision of two people wanting to be together and to make a family
the celebrations was more like a party that the people who know the bride and groom organized just to celebrate their union.
See, i think, that was a GREAT IDEA until, money appears.... and human relations became more....cold.
The day that you decided to become a couple, and that you think you are going to be with that person the rest of your life, that day, for me is the day that GOD bless your union with that person.
a priest only confirmed what GOD already approves.
Honestly, when two people really love each other, nothing else matters for be together.
Like a said, i'm catholic, in the doctrine said that you are committing sin when you have premarital sex and start living together without the blessing of the priest.
I don't believe that, i think the actual sin is being irresponsible about SEX!, but if two people love each other.... and you already commit yourself to spend your life with that person then.......what others said doesn't really matter.
not even the church... for some ODD reason people who doesn't get married or just hold a small ceremony, last more than the ones who held the BIG WEDDING... guess why? in one, doesn't matter who big or small is.... you are getting married to the person you love. in the other case.... you are just doing for the whole EVENT and so many other factors.
Loving someone is not only being married. It's also know that with that person you are going to spend all your lifetime with that person. respecting that person, admiring that person, being there for that person everyday and everytime, in good and bads.
that person must be doing the same for you.
i lost the track of the post. must be because im chatting in spanish i can't keep going with my thoughts in english XD!ç
PD: the DVD. i dislike beautiful world as a albumn, only always is enjoyable for me.... must be the beat, but the dvd... i still prefer the scene tour. the only solo that is good... was the ninomiya san!
today, one friend of mine got married!!!! i was kinda late for the wedding, (the ceremonial) but i get to see the whole ceremony =D
i take pictures.... ill post one, when i finish my....thoughts.
So, while she was getting married, i was thinking about the day i get married.
I thought about the things that the priest (i'm part of the Catholic Church) will going to say about me in the ceremony...and other stuff!
i couldn't help to think why people spend so much money in a wedding
why is so important to celebrate, why we get so hyper about only one day....!
LONG TIME AGO, (Way long ago) Marriage was supposed to be a decision of two people wanting to be together and to make a family
the celebrations was more like a party that the people who know the bride and groom organized just to celebrate their union.
See, i think, that was a GREAT IDEA until, money appears.... and human relations became more....cold.
The day that you decided to become a couple, and that you think you are going to be with that person the rest of your life, that day, for me is the day that GOD bless your union with that person.
a priest only confirmed what GOD already approves.
Honestly, when two people really love each other, nothing else matters for be together.
Like a said, i'm catholic, in the doctrine said that you are committing sin when you have premarital sex and start living together without the blessing of the priest.
I don't believe that, i think the actual sin is being irresponsible about SEX!, but if two people love each other.... and you already commit yourself to spend your life with that person then.......what others said doesn't really matter.
not even the church... for some ODD reason people who doesn't get married or just hold a small ceremony, last more than the ones who held the BIG WEDDING... guess why? in one, doesn't matter who big or small is.... you are getting married to the person you love. in the other case.... you are just doing for the whole EVENT and so many other factors.
Loving someone is not only being married. It's also know that with that person you are going to spend all your lifetime with that person. respecting that person, admiring that person, being there for that person everyday and everytime, in good and bads.
that person must be doing the same for you.
i lost the track of the post. must be because im chatting in spanish i can't keep going with my thoughts in english XD!ç
PD: the DVD. i dislike beautiful world as a albumn, only always is enjoyable for me.... must be the beat, but the dvd... i still prefer the scene tour. the only solo that is good... was the ninomiya san!