What makes dudes think that's ok?
Unsolicited dick picks is my question. What makes a dude say, "Hey, I think she would like to see my penis saying hi." *Click* ? Especially, when the recipient has made it QUITE clear she is not interested. Even if I was interested in a guy, I wouldn't want that either. I guess my thinking is if you are THAT interested, you will have the balls (ha!) to open your mouth to me in person. While, NO ONE WANTS that kind of rejection, I would think it would be better than having that kind of picture possibly ending up in the wrong hands. Who knows what that other person would do with that picture? I sure as hell don't want to find out.
I am asking because in the middle of trying to be there for my best friend, this has been my life the past few days. I got one from a dude I went to school with. Keep in mind, back in the day, he was in love with one of my best friends. But we've always been cool and the past year or two, we've renewed an EXTREMELY casual friendship. I am NOT interested in anything more. #1. He's short. Superbuff but SUPERSHORT. Can't do it. and most importantly #2. HE HAS A FUCKING GIRLFRIEND. This is what really offends me. He thinks I am the kind of girl who would do that, hook up with a dude who is already in a relationship. That I would be with any guy who is willing to cheat on his girl. That he would think THAT little of me. UGH. Totally felt disrespected. And I told him that. Which shut him up. *sigh* Shutting dudes up seems to be my gig lately. I just can't understand why decency and honesty is so hard.
I am asking because in the middle of trying to be there for my best friend, this has been my life the past few days. I got one from a dude I went to school with. Keep in mind, back in the day, he was in love with one of my best friends. But we've always been cool and the past year or two, we've renewed an EXTREMELY casual friendship. I am NOT interested in anything more. #1. He's short. Superbuff but SUPERSHORT. Can't do it. and most importantly #2. HE HAS A FUCKING GIRLFRIEND. This is what really offends me. He thinks I am the kind of girl who would do that, hook up with a dude who is already in a relationship. That I would be with any guy who is willing to cheat on his girl. That he would think THAT little of me. UGH. Totally felt disrespected. And I told him that. Which shut him up. *sigh* Shutting dudes up seems to be my gig lately. I just can't understand why decency and honesty is so hard.