To be completely honest, from an outsider's standpoint, you seem to be the one who is "fake", a "kiss-ass", "conceited", "self-centered", and "you think you're better than everyone, which you're not".
Let's see here.
"went to the munch'n'crunch afterparty at Mary Lane's, kissed soooo many people, soooo many girls, twas hot, it got more fun as the night grew longer, yay for full contact" Fake. One of the people you “kissed” was Samantha, correct? If you hate her so much… this doesn’t make sense.
"We know there has been gossip about us behind our backs. We know a lot more than you think. You know, we're cool with that. We appreciate the attention you give us. In fact, we're quite flattered!" Hello, can you say conceited and self-centered?
And as I was searching for quotes that showed that you thought you were better than everyone, I realized I had begun to copy and paste your entire post. I won’t waste my time.
You are a hypocrite, young lady. I couldn’t care less what you think. You are.
"If you don't have something nice to say, a) don't say something nice and attempt to make it sound sincere, or b) don't say anything at all! It's quite simple. Get the picture?" But it’s okay that when you don’t have something nice to say, you decide to post a goddamn essay about it on livejournal for the entire world to read? Makes perfect sense.
"By the way, we are showing a lot of self-restraint, we don't want to break you." The biggest sign of weakness is that you couldn’t suck up the fact that you guys might not get along very well. Deal with it. The truth is, you know both of them would have "broken" you if you had confronted them face to face. You are weak and insecure in this entire situation, and you are fully aware of it, which is why you had to post it on livejournal, in hopes you’d see many people come together to support you and agree with you. Ahh, too bad for you, dear. Seems to me you’re all alone. Oh. I forgot. Gigi is with you on this one. Congratulations! A follower to support you in all of your endeavors. Wonderful.
"People we don't hate: Matt, Mario, Aaron, Colin (you guys are cool)" And I’m sure all of them absolutely adore you after the fact that you just completely bashed their friends. Good going. I’m sure those four gentlemen think you’re so amazingly AWESOME after reading this insanely mature post of yours. They are bound to think so highly of you, it’s astounding. You should be so proud. I’m sure Matt, Mario, Aaron, and Colin are!
"P.S. If you try to deny this, it will be a LIE, showing that you're fake, and God frowns on that." Could you end on a more idiotic note? This isn't even worth a response, but once again, you have shown your insecurity. You don't want people to disagree with you. You can't handle it. It is too obviously apparent. To be honest I think God would frown upon a girl who posts bullshit like this for everyone to read about two of His beautiful daughters, over someone who disagreed with the bullshit and stood up for what they thought was right.
Sorry to burst your bubble, darling, but it doesn’t look like you’ve got much support. You just lost yourself some good friends. Ah well, such is life. Well done. Congratulations, I hope all of your wildest hopes and dreams have come true with the apparent results of your lovely post.
i was about to post my own long reply from an outsider's perspective, but i don't need to.
EVERYONE ELSE has covered it so nicely.
how old ARE you? please tell me you're not more than seven. because if not...i'm sorry to burst your obviously disillusioned little bubble...but you definately need to reevaluate your life and the way you deal with things.
Isn't this a matter to be discussed one on one? I mean writing a "hate post" about nothing can be going a bit too far.
I don't know how long you've known Samantha... but in the years that I have known her, she has always been as true to others as she has been to herself.
If Samantha and Mary Lane did "talk smack", as you put it... if you hated them so much, why should you care what they say? If you truly hate them so much, why did you waste your time and energy writing this post?
I really don't need to say anything... as others have so kindly said them for me. And I completely doubt that you'll take what I say seriously. But I agree with Aaron... what did you hope to accomplish with this post? Oh wait... I just noticed something... "The purpose of this is so we can all live our lives without having to pretend to be nice to each other. We can just go on DISliking each other like we have done for so long in private."
Is that what you hoped to accomplish? You could've saved yourself from quite a few people "bitching" at you by just telling it to those you have a problem with.
Grow up. If a person lies about you... forget about what they said, you know what's true about you; and if it really bothers you that much, CONFRONT them, face to face, not through your lj. And before you accuse someone of lying, get the facts straight. I'd hate to look like a total idiot accusing my friend of lying when she hasn't been.
Speaking as someone who has known Samantha for practically her whole life, I have to say that you have no idea what the hell you're talking about.
She's not genuine? In the time that i have known samantha, i have fought with her, loved her, despised her, hated her, admired her and trusted her. I have never seen Samantha as genuine as she is now. If she doesnt like someone, she doesnt waste her time on them. She doesnt talk about them. She doesnt even care. If she says something nice, she means it. She doesnt waste her time with bullshit.
You think she's conceited? Can I venture the guess that you're jealous? Samantha is an incredibly talented beautiful girl that has a boyfriend that loves her...hmm. And yet, I've never seen her get a big head about it. Jealously isn't becoming to a young lady such as yourself, just to let you know.
And how freaking immature are you to think that just because you dislike someone, you need to have it out in the open. WHAT DOES THAT SOLVE? nothing. It just causes awkwardness, outright hurtfulness and pain. personally, if i knew someone didnt like me, I'd rather have them be polite and nice rather than openly mean. Its common courtesy. I'm not saying get all buddy buddy here. I'm saying that this has no point. None. Now there will just be alot of dumb drama, and who wants that? apparently you do.
This post was a pathetic attempt at attention. your despising samantha and mary lane and yet thinking their friends and boyfriends are cool are complete and utter proof that you are so completely jealous, its sad. You think that those guys are just going to be like, oh wow, after julia's post i really realize how amazing she is and how crappy samantha and mary lane are? God, its almost funny. No wait, not almost, IT IS. You made the worst move possible. You've guarenteed Samantha and Mary Lane the upper hand, the checkmate. You've portrayed yourself in the worst light possible, as a jealous, immature, petty fool.
So enjoy the spoils of your attack. Oh wait. I forgot you lost the battle.
i don't think you want any more outsider's perspectives, but you probably need them. you are a child. i haven't seen blatent cattiness like this since junior high. it seems you were trying to get people to comment and say stuff about how much they agree with you, but oh look! it backfired. you obviously did not try to get to know samantha or mary lane in the least. if you had, you would've seen that they are NOTHING that you say they are. what you called "conceited", i like to call CONFIDENCE, something that you seem to be lacking. maybe after all of these comments you are still in denial. that sucks for you. your jealousy got the best of you this time. last time i heard, God frowns upon verbal assaults as well.
To be completely honest, from an outsider's standpoint, you seem to be the one who is "fake", a "kiss-ass", "conceited", "self-centered", and "you think you're better than everyone, which you're not".
Let's see here.
"went to the munch'n'crunch afterparty at Mary Lane's, kissed soooo many people, soooo many girls, twas hot, it got more fun as the night grew longer, yay for full contact"
Fake. One of the people you “kissed” was Samantha, correct? If you hate her so much… this doesn’t make sense.
"We know there has been gossip about us behind our backs. We know a lot more than you think. You know, we're cool with that. We appreciate the attention you give us. In fact, we're quite flattered!"
Hello, can you say conceited and self-centered?
And as I was searching for quotes that showed that you thought you were better than everyone, I realized I had begun to copy and paste your entire post. I won’t waste my time.
You are a hypocrite, young lady. I couldn’t care less what you think. You are.
"If you don't have something nice to say, a) don't say something nice and attempt to make it sound sincere, or b) don't say anything at all! It's quite simple. Get the picture?"
But it’s okay that when you don’t have something nice to say, you decide to post a goddamn essay about it on livejournal for the entire world to read? Makes perfect sense.
"By the way, we are showing a lot of self-restraint, we don't want to break you."
The biggest sign of weakness is that you couldn’t suck up the fact that you guys might not get along very well. Deal with it. The truth is, you know both of them would have "broken" you if you had confronted them face to face. You are weak and insecure in this entire situation, and you are fully aware of it, which is why you had to post it on livejournal, in hopes you’d see many people come together to support you and agree with you. Ahh, too bad for you, dear. Seems to me you’re all alone. Oh. I forgot. Gigi is with you on this one. Congratulations! A follower to support you in all of your endeavors. Wonderful.
"People we don't hate: Matt, Mario, Aaron, Colin (you guys are cool)"
And I’m sure all of them absolutely adore you after the fact that you just completely bashed their friends. Good going. I’m sure those four gentlemen think you’re so amazingly AWESOME after reading this insanely mature post of yours. They are bound to think so highly of you, it’s astounding. You should be so proud. I’m sure Matt, Mario, Aaron, and Colin are!
"P.S. If you try to deny this, it will be a LIE, showing that you're fake, and God frowns on that."
Could you end on a more idiotic note?
This isn't even worth a response, but once again, you have shown your insecurity. You don't want people to disagree with you. You can't handle it. It is too obviously apparent.
To be honest I think God would frown upon a girl who posts bullshit like this for everyone to read about two of His beautiful daughters, over someone who disagreed with the bullshit and stood up for what they thought was right.
Sorry to burst your bubble, darling, but it doesn’t look like you’ve got much support.
You just lost yourself some good friends.
Ah well, such is life. Well done.
Congratulations, I hope all of your wildest hopes and dreams have come true with the apparent results of your lovely post.
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i was about to post my own long reply from an outsider's perspective, but i don't need to.
EVERYONE ELSE has covered it so nicely.
how old ARE you? please tell me you're not more than seven. because if not...i'm sorry to burst your obviously disillusioned little bubble...but you definately need to reevaluate your life and the way you deal with
things.
grow up.
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I don't know how long you've known Samantha... but in the years that I have known her, she has always been as true to others as she has been to herself.
If Samantha and Mary Lane did "talk smack", as you put it... if you hated them so much, why should you care what they say? If you truly hate them so much, why did you waste your time and energy writing this post?
I really don't need to say anything... as others have so kindly said them for me. And I completely doubt that you'll take what I say seriously. But I agree with Aaron... what did you hope to accomplish with this post? Oh wait... I just noticed something... "The purpose of this is so we can all live our lives without having to pretend to be nice to each other. We can just go on DISliking each other like we have done for so long in private."
Is that what you hoped to accomplish?
You could've saved yourself from quite a few people "bitching" at you by just telling it to those you have a problem with.
Grow up. If a person lies about you... forget about what they said, you know what's true about you; and if it really bothers you that much, CONFRONT them, face to face, not through your lj. And before you accuse someone of lying, get the facts straight. I'd hate to look like a total idiot accusing my friend of lying when she hasn't been.
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She's not genuine? In the time that i have known samantha, i have fought with her, loved her, despised her, hated her, admired her and trusted her. I have never seen Samantha as genuine as she is now. If she doesnt like someone, she doesnt waste her time on them. She doesnt talk about them. She doesnt even care. If she says something nice, she means it. She doesnt waste her time with bullshit.
You think she's conceited? Can I venture the guess that you're jealous? Samantha is an incredibly talented beautiful girl that has a boyfriend that loves her...hmm. And yet, I've never seen her get a big head about it. Jealously isn't becoming to a young lady such as yourself, just to let you know.
And how freaking immature are you to think that just because you dislike someone, you need to have it out in the open. WHAT DOES THAT SOLVE? nothing. It just causes awkwardness, outright hurtfulness and pain. personally, if i knew someone didnt like me, I'd rather have them be polite and nice rather than openly mean. Its common courtesy. I'm not saying get all buddy buddy here. I'm saying that this has no point. None. Now there will just be alot of dumb drama, and who wants that? apparently you do.
This post was a pathetic attempt at attention. your despising samantha and mary lane and yet thinking their friends and boyfriends are cool are complete and utter proof that you are so completely jealous, its sad. You think that those guys are just going to be like, oh wow, after julia's post i really realize how amazing she is and how crappy samantha and mary lane are? God, its almost funny. No wait, not almost, IT IS. You made the worst move possible. You've guarenteed Samantha and Mary Lane the upper hand, the checkmate. You've portrayed yourself in the worst light possible, as a jealous, immature, petty fool.
So enjoy the spoils of your attack. Oh wait. I forgot you lost the battle.
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i don't think you want any more outsider's perspectives, but you probably need them. you are a child. i haven't seen blatent cattiness like this since junior high.
it seems you were trying to get people to comment and say stuff about how much they agree with you, but oh look! it backfired.
you obviously did not try to get to know samantha or mary lane in the least. if you had, you would've seen that they are NOTHING that you say they are. what you called "conceited", i like to call CONFIDENCE, something that you seem to be lacking.
maybe after all of these comments you are still in denial. that sucks for you. your jealousy got the best of you this time.
last time i heard, God frowns upon verbal assaults as well.
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jealousy?
honey,jealous?
wow,you are stupid.
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Apparently we're not as stupid as you who can't even see whats in front of her. Try reading the entry for what it is.
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She has more supporters than you think.
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