Oh I'm sorry :( For what it's worth, I am enjoying it and making the most of it. Youth isn't wasted on all the young! Though you should know that anyway as 25 is young, as is 26. Having said that I constantly tease Kwojo for being old, and he is only 24 :p But I'd still do it even if he was, say, 22.
I don't feel that old to be honest. I was 21 going on 30, as we moved into our house and had a mortgage and the dreaded "responsibility" and all by then. I just miss being at uni and carefree sometimes. Hoping to rectify that with a mental night out tomorrow. Woo for graduate uni friends!!!
The thing that always bums me out, is I thought I'd have a baby, or at least a baby on the way at this age, and Dave's still holding back. I wish I was 21 again just so I could be more carefree. I still wanted a kiddlet, but it just wasn't the right time. /novel
Was 25 your age you thought you'd have had a baby by?
I always thought that 26 would be the age I would get married and have a baby. I worked out the other day that I will be 26 the August after I finish my masters, and that's if I have two years to work and travel after my degree and before my masters. Seems pretty perfect timing except I will be POOR.
Does Dave have any idea when he wants to have kids?
Oh and are you using the diaphragm/cap? I was looking into that but am not sure I can be doing will all the sticking of my hand inside self malarkey...
I do use a diaphragm. It's not that bad actually. Pretty easy to insert although it's not the most convenient method I've used I must admit.
I did chart as well, but I gave up because there wasn't much point for me, as Dave doesn't trust it as a method. Did get 9 cycles of experience though! :)
I actually thought I'd be 24, but I didn't get married until I was nearly 25 so I figured it would be then. Now I'm 25, going on 26 and no end in sight.
Dave's last timescale was 2-3 years, so anywhere between 27 and 28 which scares the shit out of me. The desire for kids has gotten so strong now, I can hardly imagine going for 3 years without getting pregnant. I'm trying not to think about it, because it gets me down so much.
24 was my age too...mainly because that was the age my Mum was when she had me, and the age my Grandmother was when she had my Mum. The tradition is broken.
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For what it's worth, I am enjoying it and making the most of it. Youth isn't wasted on all the young! Though you should know that anyway as 25 is young, as is 26.
Having said that I constantly tease Kwojo for being old, and he is only 24 :p But I'd still do it even if he was, say, 22.
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The thing that always bums me out, is I thought I'd have a baby, or at least a baby on the way at this age, and Dave's still holding back. I wish I was 21 again just so I could be more carefree. I still wanted a kiddlet, but it just wasn't the right time. /novel
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I always thought that 26 would be the age I would get married and have a baby. I worked out the other day that I will be 26 the August after I finish my masters, and that's if I have two years to work and travel after my degree and before my masters. Seems pretty perfect timing except I will be POOR.
Does Dave have any idea when he wants to have kids?
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I was looking into that but am not sure I can be doing will all the sticking of my hand inside self malarkey...
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I did chart as well, but I gave up because there wasn't much point for me, as Dave doesn't trust it as a method. Did get 9 cycles of experience though! :)
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Dave's last timescale was 2-3 years, so anywhere between 27 and 28 which scares the shit out of me. The desire for kids has gotten so strong now, I can hardly imagine going for 3 years without getting pregnant. I'm trying not to think about it, because it gets me down so much.
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