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[smallaggie]

Leave me an anonymous comment pouring your heart out. Say anything. Tell me your stories, your secrets, those things no one ever asks but you wish to tell. Tell me about your love, your hate, your indifference, your joy. Tell me about what's inside of you when you're reading through these entries on your friends list, and tell me why you continue

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[anonymous]

This is sort of an odd topic but it's been on my mind lately. This is rather long, but I hope you can read it and give me advice. lol. I'm sure it'll be obvious who I am seeing as how I've made a similar but more brief post like this on my journal. Anyway...

Once upon a time there was this girl. I met her about four or five years ago in a chatroom on AIM. We got into a stupid, pointless arguement in the chatroom, and ended up becoming friends (go figure, right?). Well we were friends for years but after a while she seemed to start stealing my font colors, the font I typed in, etc., and it wasn't a huge deal to me or anything, so I brushed it off and figured it was nothing. I, too, will steal font colors if I like them enough. Not a lot, but on some occassions

[love_like_mine]

Finally I got fed up with her changing her Screen Names and fonts whenever I did. Copying me all the time got so old, so I told her to knock it off and she got all offensive like "I am NOT copying you." She was obviously in denial, that or it was an amazing coincidence! And I don't believe that many things are coincidental

[love_like_mine]

So it was nice to see when she wrote this rant about me in her journal about how she thinks that I think I'm so creative, and I'm such a bitch and how I think she's copying me when she supposedly came up with everything first, like she was the ingenious mind behind it all. It's funny how she stated everything that she didn't copy from me, which turned out to be everything she did copy. It was also funny how she assumed that I was making that entry in reference to her, which made it obvious that she was fully aware of what she was doing

[love_like_mine]

And stupid me, it's no longer anonymous!!! *dies* Oh well, cat's out of the bag.

[love_like_mine]

Oh yeah, and once when I went through this obsession with chihuahuas (almost a year ago), I ended up buying a chihuahua/dachshund who was black and brown and adorable. I was obsessed with getting a chihuahua for the longest time!

Well before that, this girl never liked chihuahuas. But one day she magically became OBSESSED with getting one and SHE ACTUALLY DID... Where did THAT come from.

[smallaggie]

oh missy, you are so wonderful. i have to love you for the silly unique sweetheart that you are. (i'm the same as for forgetting to make things anon.)

as for this girl, i would've been flattered at first but now it just sounds creepy. if i understood this correctly, she's left you alone recently. you need to think this through. which was better for you- the time she spent imitating you or the time she's spent leaving you alone?

hmmm i'm a type a personality so i make mental pros/cons lists all the time. if i were you, i'd figure out if i'm happier now without her or if i missed her enough to risk being copied again. if you contact her and she copies you again, then you shouldn't be upset about it.

personally, i don't think i would contact her if she had upset me so much the first time around. if you feel that she's worth getting in touch with from the look of her recent journal entries, then go for it.

good luck, and i hope this helped somewhat. i know it's confusing.

[love_like_mine]

lol, Aww thank you!

Well, it's not that I was unhappy when I was friends with her, I wasn't. I just found it irritating when she copied me. But I did like having her as a friend. I don't think I'd be as mad if she copied me again because she is OCD and bipolar, so I'm beginning to think now that that could be a reason to why she does that.

I just miss her! I'm weird. It was flattering at first, but got tiring. I don't know, I think I'll at least let her know I'm sorry that my friend's friend harassed her. :)

Thanks for the advice!