This the most retarded thing I've ever heard. Jarratt, what are you thinking? I understand you are hurting. So is Rachel. Maybe you dont believe she is, but i assure you-she is. She really does love you, and you really do love her. She cant be there right now; she needs to be 100% sure of this inorder to give up everything she has here to move to somewhere that is unsure, and quite clearly unstable! Dating a 16yr old will make you feel better because you will have someone there to care about you-but you are too old for her! And god damn! i sure as fuck hope you guys have different maturity levels-if not we have a whole new set of problems...This is hurting you both. Dont make it worse. Hurting yourself is gonna make it worse. You're an awesome person-you dont need to be doing this to yourself.
i dont know what you NEED...only you can figure out what you need...If i could tell you i would, and i wish i could! Rachel isnt gonna move out there right now, and it has nothing to do with how much she loves you! But right now things are getting harder for both of you...i wish there was an easy fiz, i really do
me too. Im not asking rachel to move out here...she told me last night that the most important thing to her right now is that college and money right now. So thats something she needs and I need something else... so we had to go our different ways. its sad but it was good while it lasted. all we can do now is just talk about the future and hopefully see eachother again. I would love to fly down again but i just spent alot a couple of weeks ago...im still tryin to recoupe from that. maybe I can visit later on this year...I dont know. If I do so then I would have to bring susan or john with me. I know that would cause drama. So whats a boy to do?
you dont need someone to babysit when you come down. I have more respect than that for you and your girlfriend so i would not try anything. Myabe if you honestly want to come down we can switch the plane ticket into your name. I dont know. I feel horrible that you are still recouping as you so put it from having to pay for that ticket... just tell me what to do with the ticket and i will. I would love to see you and i hope you know that without me saying
why is it that she can go out there without a chaperone-hell even that she is just allowed to go out there but you cant come out here without a chaperone? she is the one who then has to deal with everyone there being assholes to her-now that sounds like a fun time for her! ...only not! JESUS CHRIST you are 22years old and dating a 16 year old -DOES NO ONE ELSE SEE SOMETHING WRONG WITH THAT!? I mean even if you and rachel dont go out ever again or ever did-i still think a 22yr old dating a 16yr old on a rebound relationship is just wrong-its not fair to you or susan!
I give me the right to be upset. "Cogito ergo sum" I do care. I have know you for a very short time, yet i feel like i have known you forever. Just like Rach. She cares so much about you that it makes me hurt. So i guess i care because she does. And well basically what it comes down to is that you have hurt her-and no one hurts my friends without me getting pissed. I dont think you mean to though. I think you (and everyone) is just frustrated with the situation. Nothing seems right. She doesnt want to move out there because she wants to go to college, and proceed with her life as planned. You dont want to move out here because you dont want to give up the life you have out there. Well heres the way i look at it: you have offically fucked up all hope of her EVER moving out there. You dated the girl you told her you would never date her. You told me that if you lost Rachel you would loose the one girl you have ever loved-well kiddo-you are letting yourself loose her. Im really sorry that you are both hurting...i wish there was
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