Kelli, you asked me for my HONEST opinion, and you know well that I will give it to you! Haha, but please don't get upset, I am just telling you what I am thinkig, it is neither right nor wrong. It is just hoe I feel. As your friend, I want you to know that I will completely support ANYTHING that will make you happy. I totally know the feeling of being at UF and having it suck ass. I have not made a real decision about my life ever, so I'm sure that you kind of feel relieved that you finally have. I must say though that I honestly don't believe that you could make that decision properly due to the last couple of months. I don't want to say that without leaving you an explanation s here it goes...The last time you were at UF taking classes you didn't exactly enjoy your stay here. Now can you honestly tell yourself that this reason was purely because you had no direction? Could it ALSO very well be the fact that you didnt have many friends around at the time and it added to thr frustration and loneliness? Think of all the fun times you hadlast Fall and Spring, just because you don't know what you want to be yet, doesn't mean you have to take a summer off. This will sound kind of evil to say, but I don't mean for it to be evil at all, ok? From an outsiders perspective, like me, it seems like Uf sucked this summer, you went home, hung out with all of your old friends, which kicked ass way more then UF this summer, so now you are going to give it up, because at the time OP is more fun, and you have a job. You could have gotten a job here, you hardly even tried, so you got your old one at home, I wonder how hard that was to get. I mean it does kind of seem like a cop out, but I really don't want to think of it this way. I mean look at all of the shit that I have had to put up with, I really don't even think you know the half of it and I'm not about to tell you on here, but if you ever want to know just ask. But you are not me and I cannot ask the same from you just because I think it is something you should do. We are just all giving you opinions on what WE would do, and what we think you should do. I do not think that this should form your decision, and I know you will hear us out, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you should do it. I just think that you are kind of confused at this point and time, and I don't really think you should be making any rash decisions like this. So what if you've been thinking about it for a long time, does that make it right? Not necessairly, I mean life is tough sometimes. You have to look it in the face and go , "Listen bitch you're not so bad, I could take you." I'm sure everything will work out for you in the end, I wanted to say so much more but there is only time for so much. So Kelli, I leave you with with this, since I have now become obsessed with Incubus I say to you, "Make Yourself." I don't know if you're just trying to prove to yourself that you can do this because you never really have before or that your just struggling in life in general. I'm really sorry that life has been shitty for you lately and everyone knows how it feels you musn't forget that. If you ever want to talk to me I am always here. I will never tell anyone but always give you my honest opinion, if you take it to heart or not it is your choice, but I just want you to know that I'm here for you and will support you with WHATEVER decision you intend on making. Oh yes one last thing...please be opened minded to our comments. Don't have your mind already set on your goal and then ask for our opinions, because you're not giving us a chance to fully take in what we are saying. When people have their mind made up and ask for your opinion they just tend to become angry. I am sure that you are open minded about this all but I just wanted to say my piece. I hope you make the right decision for you whatever that may be and I hope it makes you happy Kelli. No wait I am SURE it will make you happy. :) Make that choice.
I would just like to add that no matter what your decision is YOU ARE NOT i repeat YOU ARE NOT getting out of going on a road trip to my house and HHN. Especially if you take a semester off because then you will have more money then all of us! :) Best of luck with your decision Kelli! :)
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