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I want to make sure I'm not over reacting to this.
It was my flatmate's birthday on Saturday and we had a part in our flat and I invited my friends over as well, but one of my best mates didn't turn up nor did they give me an explanation why when I texted them before the party.
When I spoke to them today about why, they said "They couldn't be bothered and were busy." I said I felt that it was rude to do so as surely they could have come over for one drink to say Hi then head off.
Am I being the selfish and/or demanding one, or not?
It was my flatmate's birthday on Saturday and we had a part in our flat and I invited my friends over as well, but one of my best mates didn't turn up nor did they give me an explanation why when I texted them before the party.
When I spoke to them today about why, they said "They couldn't be bothered and were busy." I said I felt that it was rude to do so as surely they could have come over for one drink to say Hi then head off.
Am I being the selfish and/or demanding one, or not?