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My mom morphed back into a miserable bitch. My youngest sister, who spent all of the money she had saved up for college (at least a thousand dollars) on furniture that my mom wanted, gas money, and groceries - now has to go live with my dad because the stupid bitch decided to move out of their apartment and into a one-bedroom by herself. She just started carrying stuff out to her car and driving it over to her new place.
My sister and I spent about four hours on the phone after this happened, with her in tears because of everything she's done for my mom, only for those things to be completely overlooked.
I'm not claiming that my sis is a saint; she's not. But that doesn't mean my mom has to act like this, either.
Is it worth it to tell her that I think she's a miserable bitch and that I'm sick of her bringing everyone down just to make herself happy? I don't know. It probably wouldn't do any good. But at the same time, I feel like if I don't say it, I'll just have it bubbling away inside me until I blow up.
Also, when I was talking to my dad about everything...
Dad: She needs counseling.
Me: Yeah, that sounds familiar. Remember? I said that months ago.
Dad: Well, everybody thinks that about you, too.
Me: Everybody who?
Dad: Everybody I talk to.
Me: ....everybody who, though?
Dad: Everybody.
Me: Give me some names, then. And why does everybody think this, anyway?
Dad: Because you get mad too easily, and you don't forgive very easily.
Me: Who thinks this?
Dad: Everybody.
Me: Everybody WHO?
Dad: See? You're getting mad right now.
Me: ......
Dad: Me, for one.
Me: You're not everybody, though. You are you.
Let's see here...you tell me that "everybody" thinks I have an anger problem, but then you refuse to tell me just who in the fuck you've been talking to behind my back, and you wonder why I get annoyed?
How in the fuck is it possible that these two people are responsible for my creation?
My sister and I spent about four hours on the phone after this happened, with her in tears because of everything she's done for my mom, only for those things to be completely overlooked.
I'm not claiming that my sis is a saint; she's not. But that doesn't mean my mom has to act like this, either.
Is it worth it to tell her that I think she's a miserable bitch and that I'm sick of her bringing everyone down just to make herself happy? I don't know. It probably wouldn't do any good. But at the same time, I feel like if I don't say it, I'll just have it bubbling away inside me until I blow up.
Also, when I was talking to my dad about everything...
Dad: She needs counseling.
Me: Yeah, that sounds familiar. Remember? I said that months ago.
Dad: Well, everybody thinks that about you, too.
Me: Everybody who?
Dad: Everybody I talk to.
Me: ....everybody who, though?
Dad: Everybody.
Me: Give me some names, then. And why does everybody think this, anyway?
Dad: Because you get mad too easily, and you don't forgive very easily.
Me: Who thinks this?
Dad: Everybody.
Me: Everybody WHO?
Dad: See? You're getting mad right now.
Me: ......
Dad: Me, for one.
Me: You're not everybody, though. You are you.
Let's see here...you tell me that "everybody" thinks I have an anger problem, but then you refuse to tell me just who in the fuck you've been talking to behind my back, and you wonder why I get annoyed?
How in the fuck is it possible that these two people are responsible for my creation?