You scream louder than fiction, and you get down on your knees.

[slappahoe]

so lately I've been thinking:

I need to get the word "settle" out of my vocabulary. I "settle" for too much, I "settle" for less than I deserve in so many aspects of life. I need to (first of all) find a guy (yes, I did not say boy)that I'm not just settling for, one that meets actual criteria. Not that I am very particular, or even have more than

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Lets all be anonymous,it's so uncool to say your name when you're"constructively"criticizing someone

[slappahoe]

Well when you're called "shallow" by someone you might as well have never met, it's nearly impossible to take it at face value.

Yes, because we all know that I am so closed minded to the point of not dating someone because he is shorter than me. THOSE WERE NOT TO BE TAKEN LITERALLY AS A WHOLE, THEY ARE SIMPLY GUIDELINES AS TO WHAT I WOULD TYPICALLY LOOK FOR IN A POTENTIAL BOYFRIEND.
And having a car is only logical because I have never dated someone that has lived in the same city as me, so it would be virtually impossible to hold a relationship with someone if they couldn't come to see you. Duh.

I didn't expect this to be a want-ad, it's simply a personal statement of things I have previously overlooked and should probably hold higher standards to. If you were told by your friends, after pretty much every single guy you've dated, "You can do better", you, too, would start contemplating what you could be a little more particular about when it comes to dating, and look for certain qualities that would improve your chances at happiness.

You sound like a smart girl and all, but you AREN'T ME, so you can't possibly know what I've gone through in dating and relationships, and especially can't know the exact meaning of what I was trying to say in a LiveJournal post.

Re: Lets all be anonymous,it's so uncool to say your name when you're"constructively"criticizing som

[slappahoe]

Ok, so as I was reading over the previous comment, I noticed where you said people told you that you can "Do better." Well, to be honest with you, I have been told that ever since I started dating my boyfriend and also about the other guys that I've dated and talked to besides him. I cannot recall a time where someone was completely satisfied with my boyfriend or guy I was talking to. Don't you realize that no matter who you date or are in a relationship with, you will always be told that you can do better. So, please, do not use that as an excuse for setting your standards higher and looking like a shallow bitch. When a friend or someone you know sees the other person hurt over a guy or girl, they are going to tell you what you want to hear, which is, "You can do better." Sometimes they use, "He/she doesn't deserve you." It is all the same shit. I don't know you very well but it sounds to me like you need not to set your standards so high. You're not anything special sweetheart, just someone who thinks they are better than everyone because you had SOME logic and because you have had been screwed over in the past when it comes to boys and relationships. Just my opinion.

Oh, and this is the not the same anonymous person as before, just so you know.

Also, the whole, "lets me anonymous..." line, let it go. Do you really think people care if they are leaving anonymous comments or not. As long as they are getting what they have and want to say out, thats all that matters to them.

Re: Lets all be anonymous,it's so uncool to say your name when you're"constructively"criticizing som

[slappahoe]

I love the fact that absolute strangers are taking time out of their busy days to write page long comments in my journal.

Is my life really that much more interesting than yours?

hahaha.

Re: Lets all be anonymous,it's so uncool to say your name when you're"constructively"criticizing som

[slappahoe]

1. It's not a page long.
2. It isn't that your life is so much more interesting than mine because mine is pretty intersting I must say. I was just reading through journals and when I saw your entry I felt the need to comment on it. So, again, there you go thinking you are better than everyone. Give it up.