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[skysers]

Question: What do I do when two of your best friends are butting heads. And liking them both seeing both sides of the problem, and agree with both ends and having them pour their heart out to you...what is there to do? i get the evil glare from both if i hang or say something to their enemy. and get frowned upon when i dont give into the pressure.

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[cheerbeth33]

if your friends put you in a situation or you having to choose one or the other, then they weren't your true friends in the first place. explain to them that u wont stop hanging out with the other just because they are fighting. let them know that if they want to be immature and stop talking, then they can, but to leave you out of it. thats all i have to say about that lol. <3

[skysers]

Question......but why does this part always happen to me? why am i always in the middle of it?? I swear every new group of people i get with i always come in the wrong part...maybe friends isnt my stronghold in life...maybe they are no good for me...what do you think about that?

[cheerbeth33]

yeah i dunno about that one. i guess its just something that you'll have to deal with. so either pick different friends or try to work through it. i dunno what'd i do in your situation. good luck with that decision

[skysers]

alright so heres the low down....tonight was greshams surprise party and of course alyssa and cook and little were there and the three of them walked in together and they were talking and having fun no harm right? then later cook and little ignored alyssa and alyssa ignored them. so alyssa would tell me things and say why arent they talking to me. alyssa leaves and cook and little are like why doesnt she talk to us? so i dont know whats going on anymore...I GIVE UP!!i examine myself and see what i do and i see nothing i see a good friend who will listen to both sides of the story and keep it to myself. i just dont understand...i swear if it happens to me with this new group of friends i am gonna quit period and just have friends like you and lins....and a couple others but not many...but i jsut want to say thank you so very much for sitting here and reading what i have to say....it means the WORLD to me, and the reason why i prolly have so much to say is because you are the only person who i can release all my problems too....well